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baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak.
i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl

i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend

imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different.

And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl.


You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is.

Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually.

And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time.

I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something

i never compared love to a steak.

i compared sex to a steak.

Yes a song will remind you of events of your life, mainly because the ear and the sense of smell are extremely tied to the memory.

The first sexual experience is not defining nor that important, obviously if its ridiculously traumatic like a rape its gong to affect you in a future, but a bad experience or a non optimal wont change you, when i have sex i dont think of my first time... i just think "wooohoooooo!!!".


Going back to th silly steak analogy... when you eat a steak will you remember your first steak? no.... if the first time u eat it you choke and u nearly die, well u might remember it every time u eat steak again.

Actually that kind of ridiculous wish of "super especial first time" ruins sex for so many people especially girls, they expect to fall in love with their first guy to be all awesome and pretty and well... many times its just clumsy, akward and embarassing, or the guy will dump them the next day shattering their pink bubble.

On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different. And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl. You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is. Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually. And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time. I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

ding

On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid.

Ding, indeed. Great post.

mmm steak...

Eh, Personally I think getting a hooker is pretty icky, thats just preference though. Don't see anything wrong or even pathetic about it if it's something you'ld enjoy.

How is it ever in any way pathetic to spend your money on something you want?

It might be fair to say it's pathetic if someone is completly unable to get a girl on there own when they want to and are trying to, but thats the same weather they use an escort or not.


Though, certainly agree that anyone who takes one out and pretends she's there girlfriend around others is pathetic and worthless.

On March 26 2008 13:16 RiKD wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote:   On March 26 2008 12:45 Floofy wrote: baal i wouldnt compare love to a steak. i would compare this to.... say the first time u meet the love of ur life, if u were listening to some song. its pretty likely that song will always remind u of that girl i remmeber my buddy used to always put on "stan" by eminem when we were playing perfect dark together. this song reminds me of that friend imo if your first time is a really bad experience with a really ugly girl, it might have some negative effects. like, every time u have sex u remember that experience, or something You really don't have any clue what love is so I don't see how you think you can comment on it. The song reminds you of that friend because it was something he -always- did. That's different. And nobody is telling you to go bone some ugly girl. You know what I think? Stop focusing on sex or getting laid. It's not actually important. Your goal, as far as I know, was to gain experience interacting with girls and confidence and be able to talk and be around them. Maybe have it turn into something more. But rather than doing that you're trying to start relationships out of nothing with people you shouldn't be or focusing on the least important part of what somebody is. Just go out there. Go meet people. Go to social events, bars, clubs, out with friends and meet their friends, take some classes and meet people their, whatever. Just go out there, talk to people, learn about them, learn about yourself, get to know yourself. Grow up and mature. Find a sense of style and a good groove to live in. Unless you're totally completely inept, things should fall into place eventually. And y'know what? It'll probably take several years for all this to come into place. But I suppose all things that are worthwhile take time. I still stand by virtually everything I've said in this thread. You need some perspective and you need your head in the right place. This is what you need to be doing. Not getting some whore. You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid. ding

On March 26 2008 18:42 YoMeR wrote: mmm steak...

On March 27 2008 01:37 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 18:42 YoMeR wrote: mmm steak...

On March 26 2008 16:56 SemPeR wrote: Show nested quote + On March 26 2008 12:59 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: You are the most important thing in your life. Work on yourself, gain social experience, get to know people and the world. Then maybe you can start worrying about relationships and getting laid. Ding, indeed. Great post.

his post is very depressing thought

if an uplifting post on the internet in your one thousand reply thread about how to even talk to a girl depresses you then you're one fucked mother fucker who wont even bone an ugly girl

his post is basicelly saying i need to become good socially to get a girlfriend and that it will probably take years
to me, this is depressing

you 100% missed the point floofy
you need to become comfortable in your own skin, like yourself, start doing things for you instead of other people, and be happy.

FLOOFY COME TO VEGAS FOR WSOP PLZ, I HAVE TO SEE THIS

ONE TIME

On March 28 2008 13:00 Rekrul wrote: FLOOFY COME TO VEGAS FOR WSOP PLZ, I HAVE TO SEE THIS ONE TIME

buy him a plane ticket

and a lapdance

On March 28 2008 12:24 Floofy wrote: this is depressing

You might be overreacting or misunderstanding the advice here. The implication is that people are considering the prospect of a "meaningful" relationship versus "getting a girlfriend". It may seem to lean towards longer-term stuff. Given the way you started the thread ("seduction" D, it could be that you simply want to get laid and would prefer if the girl wasn't a hooker. =p Whatever the case, the advice is still valuble.

It will not take years. It will take only as long as you need to just adopt the right mindset, and have fun going out. That could be right now if you should decide it to be. Leaving the house for more reasons than to "find a girlfriend" is a start, and the rest (i.e. the actual girlfriend, lol) will come with time.

COME ON FLOOF!!! COME TO VEGAS FLOOF