I haven't been dating/seeing anyone for quite a while. It wasn't really a conscious decision but maybe the mix of having no real viable options + contemplation about views on love, relationships.
Anyway I met a new friend, and she is so beautiful, I am finding myself drawn to her. I have been having a blast with her, and have taken her on a few play dates, like driving into the country and looking at the stars with no kissing but hand holding. I don't know if she likes me more than friends.
Anyway earlier this week I saw her talking to some other guys, and I got kind of ridiculously jealous and felt really stupid for feeling this way. I didn't enjoy the way I was feeling because it's so stupid. Maybe stupider than this post. Anyway I adjusted by cutting my time with her.
I'm just confused as to what to do and want to just save myself any future embarrassment or heartache
Sigh..this is prob the gayest post ever
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OpWestAcct United States. Sep 18 2012 00:47. Posts 640
Depending on your age, meaning if you are 21+ I would recommend telling her how you feel The fun and games are over and at this age most people aren't looking to waste time but looking for a partner with balls.
prolly best to bust a move and then completely cut her out of your life if you want something more than friendship and she doesn't.
i been there and from personal experience hanging around and being interested when a girl only wants to be friends is a recipe for tons and tons of heartache
Also in general if you wanna be with someone you have to work on your insecurities that make you fearful and jealous. It's kinda zen bullshit but you can only attract and be with someone after you reach the point of not needing to be with someone.
Your happiness should be from within and it should not be affected this much by someone else. A girl will not fill the hole in your soul and make you happy. Not for long anyway, if you depend on them like that.
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Spicy United States. Sep 18 2012 01:06. Posts 1027
From what I can see from your post, you are clearly attracted to this girl but trying to make some shitty justification as to why you aren't trying to pursue her. Yes infatuation can feel really stupid and even cloud your judgment but denying it can be just as irrational.
You don't know if she likes you more than friends? Well it's fucking time to find out
I once had that feeling of wow, I haven't had a relationship in like 2 years.. I think it's time to have one. Fell lustfully in love and ended up married in Vegas 3 weeks. Worst mistake of my life. Make sure she respects herself and you. And vice verse, then contemplate whether she's worth pursuing.
My god, you're all nerds with no understanding of women. FFS don't listen to any of these idiots.
If you go after her and wear your heart on your sleeve, she's going to hurt you, laugh at you, and reject you hard.
Play hard to get at, be cocky, be honest, be flirtatious with her and other women and make sure she sees it. Send mixed messages. Bitches love to hate that shit. Be the fucking alpha male you should be based upon your biological make up and stop being such a pussy.
Anyone who disagrees with me is an idiot and/or dating a 2/10 and that's all they'll ever get.
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On September 18 2012 00:06 Spicy wrote:
You don't know if she likes you more than friends? Well it's fucking time to find out
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RaiNKhAN United States. Sep 18 2012 06:03. Posts 4080
sounds like she is still playing the field a bit. go find some more girls so u dont get owned here
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On September 18 2012 00:12 SeanBam wrote:
I once had that feeling of wow, I haven't had a relationship in like 2 years.. I think it's time to have one. Fell lustfully in love and ended up married in Vegas 3 weeks. Worst mistake of my life. Make sure she respects herself and you. And vice verse, then contemplate whether she's worth pursuing.
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On September 18 2012 04:26 Zep wrote:
My god, you're all nerds with no understanding of women. FFS don't listen to any of these idiots.
If you go after her and wear your heart on your sleeve, she's going to hurt you, laugh at you, and reject you hard.
Play hard to get at, be cocky, be honest, be flirtatious with her and other women and make sure she sees it. Send mixed messages. Bitches love to hate that shit. Be the fucking alpha male you should be based upon your biological make up and stop being such a pussy.
Anyone who disagrees with me is an idiot and/or dating a 2/10 and that's all they'll ever get.
you got some valid points but you can make them without bein a prick you kno
but maybe soundin alpha on an internet forum makes u feel good
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Stroggoz New Zealand. Sep 18 2012 10:35. Posts 5328
bad beats don't bother poker players, therefore go for it.
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United States. Sep 18 2012 06:03. Posts 4080
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