change

have goals, break them into smaller goals, write down affirmations and why you want them and what will you achieve them every single day.

"I love change, it helps me to get better, to move forward. I will do . . . (something small)" and then just do it, keep working on small stuff and you will learn to love change.

And if you won't chage even tho you have a goal broken down to small goals with a plan that you work on every day, they you maybe don't want them goals strong enough in the first place and your current situation is not so bad afterall

But as you correctly said, always start with accepting where you are right now and then imagine where you want to be and then plan what will get you there and just take action every day towards it

give us an update of your old blog with the asian girl

Also, always remember you need to take action if you want to get what you want.

"You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great"
-Zig Ziglar.

Shit, I love my sales career it's all about goals attitude and work ethic

how old ru?

On January 25 2013 17:40 RaiNKhAN wrote: give us an update of the asian girl

post pictures of girls

previous blog title:

"forgiveness"


current blog title:

"change"


next blog title:

"getting back with my ex..."

change is not real

she's the best. i'm just a piece of scum and want more

On January 25 2013 17:39 LemOn[5thF] wrote: have goals, break them into smaller goals, write down affirmations and why you want them and what will you achieve them every single day. "I love change, it helps me to get better, to move forward. I will do . . . (something small)" and then just do it, keep working on small stuff and you will learn to love change. And if you won't chage even tho you have a goal broken down to small goals with a plan that you work on every day, they you maybe don't want them goals strong enough in the first place and your current situation is not so bad afterall But as you correctly said, always start with accepting where you are right now and then imagine where you want to be and then plan what will get you there and just take action every day towards it

On January 25 2013 17:42 LemOn[5thF] wrote: Also, always remember you need to take action if you want to get what you want. "You don't have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great" -Zig Ziglar. Shit, I love my sales career it's all about goals attitude and work ethic

no offense, but this is exactly the type of amorphous advice that makes me feel guilty year after year

how do you mean? You need to make it specific to yourself so it stops becoming amorphous.
How I am supposed to know what goals you have or what the fuck you want in life?


It makes you feel guilty because you have never set specific measurable goals for yourself that you REALLY wanted and didn't work hard enough for long enough on achieving them.

yea u right

lol cute pic sorry can't contribute, lemon's advice makes sense but i struggle with same kind of feelings sometimes

this reminds of a quote in the movie ''poolhall junkies'' : ''If you go and think you're a bum, then you'll become a bum. And the only ones you will be able to beat are the ones who think they are bigger bums than you.

so many photoshop posibilities

One quote I really like goes;
"You can never fail, only learn and improve."
You create your own reality, feelings come from inside you. Feel like awsome you become more awsome, feel like shit become shit.

In my personal life view the whole point of living is to grow. Learn something new every day, do something just a little better, love more, learn more.

just put in more WORK imo