I'm so sad :(

this

Never listen to advice from guys on lp, those guys probably haven't had a gf past 1 month. I've had one for 4 years, give me a PM if you need any advice, were a very happy couple and I love helping people were ever I can.

I wish I could give you a hug my friend, hugs always make me feel better. Ask a family member or a friend for a hug

It's not the technique that's wrong, it's probobly the way you adapted it. Ignoring and push pull is for actually getting a girl attracted to you, if you're already in a relationship then you just become incogruent and it would be no surprise if the girl felt you were just being an asshole. I think the whole idea of negs has gotten out of hand with most people who try and adapt it. It's not about saying mean things, it's about being playfully teasing. If you're just straight up rude, that probobly wont get you anywhere. Think along the lines of cocky-funny instead.

Sad to hear you're not doing well with your girl and I wholeheartedly think that you shouldn't change the way you are with her to become more alpha since that's not the person she fell for. As you said, don't fix what's not broken.

On December 21 2009 09:51 Rocketshiptrip wrote: pick up artist bullshit

listening to this drivel is unbearable

If you're a submissive, nicer beta-type guy then just accept your lot in life and salvage what you can out of the relationship. Be content with what you have and who you are.

well, something was wrong in the first place, otherwise you wouldn't have looked for advice.
Anyway, do not be sad, everyone has to make experiences. Do not let your gf walk over you and treat you like her boytoy.

I know that girls are complicated, but sometimes you have to be kind of selfish otherwise they do not see you as a man.

On December 21 2009 10:09 Sanai wrote: If you're a submissive, nicer beta-type guy then just accept your lot in life and salvage what you can out of the relationship. Be content with what you have and who you are.

this is retarded. You can be whoever you want to be and be confident and assertive. If your being confident and assertive wrecks a relationship then its not a good relationship, period. As for deliberately ignoring the other party, ummm, that seems a bit arbitrary.

On December 21 2009 08:22 tdotkrayz wrote: I tried to be more assertive in the relationship. Things like ignoring the girl on purpose or saying mean things in order to generate push pull tension.

FWIW, the first sentence has nothing to do with the second.

EDIT: Well, actually the second construction is not even a sentence /grammar nit.

I hope you didnt start being a dick and ignoring your gf lol?

Tdotkrayz is a massive troll on TL.net, with about 50 banned accounts. I don't know for absolute certain that this is the same person, but it's highly likely so take anything he says with a grain of salt -_-

LOLOLOLOL TDOTKRAYZ

lololol

liquidpoker.net is no fun at all compared to TL.net

Teamliquid was and still is my favorite trolling site.

There's way easier places to troll, such as this site, but these just don't give me the satisfaction I get from a successful Teamliquid troll...

There's no place like Teamliquid on the internetz. None. Sooo many internet alpha males on that site. Trolling one TL.net internet alpha male is like trolling a dozen people on a forum like this.

Go ahead and ban me Kennigit. My Glory lives on forever!

Weird people on the internet

tell her to get a boob job

On December 21 2009 11:17 Sicks Macks wrote: Weird people on the internet

On December 21 2009 10:20 Sicks Macks wrote: Show nested quote + On December 21 2009 10:09 Sanai wrote: If you're a submissive, nicer beta-type guy then just accept your lot in life and salvage what you can out of the relationship. Be content with what you have and who you are. this is retarded. You can be whoever you want to be and be confident and assertive. If your being confident and assertive wrecks a relationship then its not a good relationship, period. As for deliberately ignoring the other party, ummm, that seems a bit arbitrary.

I'll admit that my suggestion was a bit "dumbed down" because I couldn't be fucked to type up a longer, more detailed reply. Judging by the true nature of the OP, it seems like it was a good thing I didn't write more.

However, I do want to follow up in response to you by saying that it isn't always that simple. It's not just about "confidence" and being assertive because some people find joy in being the less dominant one in the relationship. If you've ever engaged in or even read up on BDSM culture, it's very common to find people who don't want to be in charge, who find greater satisfaction in playing the supporting role to their partner's wishes and desires than loudly proclaiming their own. Even among "normal" vanilla folk, there are people like this - I have several male friends who, once they find themselves a gf, take IMMENSE satisfaction in basically becoming their gf's new puppydog, bending over backwards to make her happy. For guys like this, telling them to be "confident" and asser their needs is even more meaningless than what I originally wrote because they're just happy submitting to their gf's wishes. They lack the selfish trait inherent in alpha males and other dominant personalities.

/wrists imo