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Sea.Yacht United States. Jan 30 2010 13:35. Posts 0 | | |
I'm about midway through my first semester of Freshman year at my college.
I really feel like I've hit rock bottom because lately, I really don't know how to deal with problems revolving around my roommate...
It started out as a pleasant experience. My roommate was a pretty cool guy, if a bit on the nerdy side. I, on the other hand, am kind of stupid in school but I consider myself a pretty athletic guy and I'm on the baseball team and the hockey team in my college.
Yeah, as unlikely as it seems, we got along really well in the first weeks of college. I brought him to my baseball parties and he helped me with my calculus homework. It was a bit of a mutual relationship of sorts.
The trouble all started when he started going out with this girl who also goes to our college. Her face was average looking, but she had some nice looking set of tits and she was also decently intelligent - smarter than me at least lol. Anyways, my friend and his gf seemed to have great chemistry and the two of them were going out for well over a month while I just hung around parties and hooked up with random chicks.
One day, my roommate's girl walked into our dorm and asked me where he was. I replied that he was at the library printing out an essay. Strangely enough, I began to feel attracted to her. It wasn't that I was in love or anything, just that I hadn't gotten laid in quite a while and was feeling understandably horny in the presence of a female.
I decided to go for it. We talked mostly about sports and I filled her in on my favorite hockey team the Sharks. She seemed to be pretty interested (and understandably so since my roommate doesn't know anything about sports) and after a while, we really started hitting it on. I guess she was impressed with my California tan and I was kinda impressed with her tits.
One thing led to another, and we eventually had sex. Immediately, I could tell that this chick was no good and it was no surprise when I found out that she still had her v-card. Admittedly, she "tried" to get into it, but I really didn't enjoy it that much. Afterwards, I breathed a sigh of relief. If my roommate was going out with her for a month and still hasn't had sex with her, then chances are he never would have so that makes me not guilty of anything.
Now, we promised each other that WE WOULDN'T TELL ANYBODY, and none of us did. However, my roommate is like a freaking genius and started sensing a tension in the air after about a week or so after the "incident". He confronted her, and I guess she broke and told him the truth (God, why did I trust her?). Eventually, she comes running to me for support. I really didn't know what to do in that kind of situation so I just kinda brushed her aside for the moment while I tried to recollect myself.
But things started getting nasty with my roommate. He started shoving me in the halls and every time he walked by me and when I asked him, he wouldn't respond. In fact, he stopped talking to me altogether and now I'm failing calculus because I can't do my homework without his help.
Yeah, I really don't know what to do right now. I guess the relationship with my roommate is kind of over but I still don't know what to do with this chick. I mean, she suddenly thinks that I'm going to be her new bf and offer her support but I really don't like her very much.
How can I dump her in a sensitive way so she won't do something crazy like have a breakdown or something? And also, I want to make it look like she dumped me rather than I dumped her because she's kind of popular around campus and if she makes it look like I dumped her, then it will hurt my chances with other chicks in my college. How do I dump her?
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anon Lithuania. Jan 30 2010 13:42. Posts 5965 | | |
is that a brag or beat?
Anyways good read : ) |
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CrownRoyal United States. Jan 30 2010 13:46. Posts 11385 | | | |
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thumbz555 United States. Jan 30 2010 13:54. Posts 3281 | | |
This is rofl. You made your bed, lie in it. Pretty fucked up that you took your roommate's/friend's girl from him just for a one time fuck toy. Karma = you failing calculus and well deserved imo. |
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Zalfor United States. Jan 30 2010 14:04. Posts 2236 | | | |
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Zyto United States. Jan 30 2010 14:08. Posts 12 | | |
I got 99 problems but a bitch aint one. |
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Naib Hungary. Jan 30 2010 14:17. Posts 968 | | |
instant karma'd lol, no offense sir but reading this you come off as a first rate douchebag. |
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Bigbobm United States. Jan 30 2010 14:19. Posts 5511 | | |
well you got one thing right. you must be pretty stupid, because calculus isn't even that hard. the rest of the story seems dumb/fake |
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what you did was horrible. man up to your mistakes. go apologize to both |
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vegable United States. Jan 30 2010 14:27. Posts 2453 | | |
Dude, forget the chick she is totally irrelevant in your list of priorities right now.
I'm living in a dorm for the first time this year. I would highly suggest that you put repairing the relationship with your roomate as your first priority. Make a firm decision to apologize to your roomate if you think you're in the wrong, and show that you genuinely mean it. I mean the guy lives in an area with full access to your valuables, that is not a person you want to piss off. This is a critical relationship you would THINK to have established before moving in.
Secondly don't rely on him to finish your calc hw, i think thats what you're in college for. Midterms are comin up you know
Third, Let shit simmer down with the girl and do not see her at all.
and of course takke all of this with a grain of salt, this is what I'd do in your situation. |
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Silver_nz New Zealand. Jan 30 2010 14:28. Posts 5647 | | | |
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rgfdxm United States. Jan 30 2010 14:31. Posts 1514 | | | |
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EvilSky  Czech Republic. Jan 30 2010 14:34. Posts 8918 | | |
Dont worry bro, after all you still got your california tan, thats all that really matters. |
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Jonoman92 United States. Jan 30 2010 14:35. Posts 280 | | |
You're an idiot if you think since they hadn't had sex after a month they never would lol. Not everyone has sex when they're 14. |
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rANDY United Kingdom. Jan 30 2010 14:37. Posts 2223 | | | |
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JSquids United States. Jan 30 2010 14:43. Posts 1142 | | |
kill them both.
problem solved. |
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genjix China. Jan 30 2010 14:43. Posts 2677 | | |
You're right. The roommate was a walking vagina and the girl didn't feel attracted to him anyway- he was her wet blanket.
I wouldn't worry about dumping the girl. If anything it makes you look good because you can pick and choose girls. if the girls friends get bitchy about it then be like "what? so i cannot choose who i like now?" and be indifferent. dont react to their bullshit.
about the roommate... what can you do. pussy whipped guy. probably his first girlfriend every and had illusions of marriage or w/e. the girl wasnt tricked into doing anything with you- she wanted it. and if anything she manipulated u into it by engineering the situation.
id tell the dude how it is... that its just a girl and not to be bitter about it. humans have sex and its natural. |
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Augury United States. Jan 30 2010 15:12. Posts 222 | | |
I stopped reading when I read that you were a fan of hockey, not to mention the Sharks |
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Chobo1 Thailand. Jan 30 2010 15:16. Posts 287 | | |
lol genjix, completely removing the guy's responsibility for his -EV actions...its natural lolz |
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