Party Went Wrong

chokeabitch

get coaching from night on that btw

Honestly man, call her fucking out on it. Maybe she just thought the guy was genuinely interesting/fun and it's not intimate or w/e. It sounds like you were really up front with her and she should know not to be fucking around. Nobody can know the situation better than you though dude, so I'd just say use your best judgment and snap a bitch's neck if need be. Cuz honestly it sounds like she's being shady, but I don't know, it could definitely be innocent too.

I'm more pissed because, ive known this girl for a while and im cool with her, so its not like just some random chick. Lets be honest when a guy goes after a girl and gets her number, he isnt looking for a fun hangout, he wants a hookup, and i doubt she just thinks hes genuinely interesting/fun. I think ill just confront her about it on tuesday when i see her, and probably just not talk to her after that pretty much no matter what happens. I got big trust issues, and shes already trippin.

get some head and when ur finished say gg no re hf with this dude and throw her out

well content is not funny but the way you writte things down makes me lol :D

My opinion, dont rush things , let her trippin if you think she does , you cant change that anyway.
You will make urself seem like an asshole trying to interfere with what she does with him.
Just stay cool with her , have sex , go out w/e makes you have a good time , but dont get things seriously since obviously she is not ^^

Alas stay cool because ...fuck them

sounds like ur acting like a passive aggressive homo with this girl.

"i get pissed so i begin to ignore her, forcing her to guess wats wrong."

dude...thats what chicks do to men.

"i ignore the guy talking to her, then ignore her some more for talking to him"


grow a sack

On June 06 2010 07:18 JSquids wrote: sounds like ur acting like a passive aggressive homo with this girl. "i get pissed so i begin to ignore her, forcing her to guess wats wrong." dude...thats what chicks do to men. "i ignore the guy talking to her, then ignore her some more for talking to him" grow a sack

its not even like that, its not like i acted emo and stayed away from her. I just went and enjoyed the party and didnt cry over her. I just acted like i didnt care. And as for her and the guy, i talked with them a few times while they were talking, but everytime her friend pulled her away, i would go start doing something else, then later i see they are talking to him all over again. So i just kinda ignored the whole situation and said fuck it and had a good time, but it was still annoying me. What am i supposed to walk up to him and tell him to back off and look like a huge douchebag?

To be honest, she is probably interested in this guy, but continues to use the whole "are you mad at me thing" because he did not directly ask for her number. At this point you are just someone she is settling for aka backup until she finds a replacement. When girls act distant for no reason at all, it usually is a sign that they have lost interest.

She may still like you to some degree, but I don't think you should trust her at this point. Unfortunately I think this relationship is doomed to fail. I bet even before you picked her up she consoled with the friend about the way she was feeling about you and brought her for some type of support.

Btw, you are not being gay about the situation at all. You actually handled it pretty well considering what went down. Most guys would have become more emotional or jealous, especially with alcohol thrown in the mix.

I think the whole Facebook thing is the last straw though. Even if nothing happens between her and this guy some other guy will eventually come along. End it with her.

eh aren't you guys just dating? or even if that?

Sucks imo but eh sounds like a typical dumb bitch. imo try to fuck her and dump her ass to the side and go after the next one.

She sounds like she's about 19 and just realized she has freedom in her life or some shit, don't be a groveling pussy to her. You told her how you felt and she doesn't give a fuck.

Sooooooooooooo get ready & I would seriously try to at least fuck her friend. Revenge is best served cold with herpes imo :3

lol at some of the posts in here from 15yos. you sound like a dick dude, you made the whole night ackward because your girl wanted to bring a friend to the party? booo hooo its a freaking party. then she doesnt give you enough attention and you throw a hissy fit on the ride home lol gl buddy. you sound like a vag.

On June 06 2010 10:41 mcjinzo wrote: lol at some of the posts in here from 15yos. you sound like a dick dude, you made the whole night ackward because your girl wanted to bring a friend to the party? booo hooo its a freaking party. then she doesnt give you enough attention and you throw a hissy fit on the ride home lol gl buddy. you sound like a vag.

The night was fine, we had a good time up until the last hour or 2 she started talking to that guy alot. And where did i throw a hissy fit on the ride home? i just sat there listening to music and acted like nothing was wrong. Then when she asked me later i told her how i was feeling, i didnt show her i was upset, i didnt get all emotional.

Just by saying "lol at some of the posts in here from 15yos" makes me think you are a 20 something year old virgin, who tries to be e-cool. gl buddy, atleast ive seen a vag in real life.


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and ive decided to hang out with her on tuesday, and just ask her about it, and where she sees me and her going. If she wants to date around, or whatever, ill just give up and get over it, the more i stay in something like this the worse it will get, so might as well bail now

LOL WOMEN. Yeah man doesn't look good. I don't think its going to hold up soon. Might want to move on. Sorry

I don't think OP was really out of line because it's not like he randomly invited this girl to a party and acted like she's his property. Anyway, best solution: pretend like you don't give a shit and gg. Girls like it when you don't care!

You do seem quite young. A frat party isnt a "date." You shouldn't have gotten emo that she invited a friend to a party. With that being said she digs the other dude and they got "wild." Time to dump her and not worry about it.

i read the whole thing, i dont think u want a girl like that in ur life.. she sounds pretty young and in the state where she just wants attention from every guy and doesnt care about any of um.. id just move on and find a chill girl.

IMO always best to be upfront. If she pissed you off talking to that other guy, tell her. If you think she might be hanging around other guys, ask her. If she gives you the wrong answers or you find out she lies to you, dump her.

Don't try to play the whole "interpret my actions" game. We see how well that works when women do it to men

You need to quit being all emo pre-party bro. She wants to bring a friend? Great. Is she hot? Try to get them both by the end of the night. You being a DBag to her in the beginning kinda set this whole thing up imo. Regardless, doesn't justify her flirting with the other dude. I'd call her out on it.
edit: and if you're gonna quit it, make sure you hit it first.

+1 to Carthac's post. Keep it simple and straight to the point with her. You each have standards. It's time to assess and see if she is up to your standards, relationship wise.