Hmmm!!

I'd 3bet bigger, bet the flop, bet the turn.

As played I'm calling / taking a note, although maybe it's a fold, like he has a flush or Ax/AK. Weird spot.

why 3b higher, im in position, isnt it best to have it smaller?

It's standard to go 3x+1bb in position, and 3x+2bb-4x OOP, which is about pot size IP and bigger than pot OOP. 3bet bigger the deeper you are and smaller the shallower.

You 3bet bigger because A) you want to get value and B) you want to deny your opponent good pot odds.

Weird, dont see it like that, i 3b less, since I want the power of being in position to be more effective, i want my 3b bluff to earn me a few BB, and it doesn't feel like people want to call oop, regardless if it's a few BB's left.

I also sent a few pms to a few crushers at mid stakes, and most ppl told me to adapt, but maybe do a few clicks less when ip, and a few clicks more oop.

And don't we 3b more, when oop, since we not only want the initative, but we want to reduce the power of position, and get more stack in?

I used to do it like that, but ill need more ppls opinion and explanation lol, the only mistake i do now is that, sometimes i fuck up, and i want to do 8-9BB in pos, and 11-12OOP but i fuck up and do small 3b oop, and sometimes large IP lol

How does 3betting smaller make position more effective? The most effective bluff is the bluff that gets our opponent to fold. The most effective value bet gets the most value it can get.

Position is already effective, intrinsically. Sure, we want SPR in position, but not at the expense of losing value, and allowing people to draw for cheap(and correctly).

Just IMO, many styles/sizings can be successful.