I struggle in these situations ..

Is this an OK play.. I don't feel great about any of my options.. But is call better than a shove? And if river is scary we can fold? Does this open us up to being bluffed every now and then by calling turn?

only turn is well played

seems fine to me

how did he misplay other streets waga?

E: flop check back probably better? we have a low-ish wrap 4 way and there are spades

Preflop might be a fold considering we have no suits(which means you get freerolled on this turn sometimes), our pair is is small(which means we get set over setted, we get sucked out on easier vs bigger 2 pair), we have gaps in our hand(which makes our straights+draws weaker).

Flop is 4way, and our hand is pretty weak considering they can have tons of 2pair/sets+ big draws. I think it's better to c/c this weak draw or just fold(maybe represent flush if it hits). Instead you bet half pot which means your fold equity is going to be small.

Turn you hit the money card but you could of course be getting it in as an underdog vs the same hand+flush draw/set. Perhaps a turn call is better so we can bluff any river thats checked to us, but I don't know if that's superior to getting it in now.

He got checked to on the flop and I think stabbing is fine