Broke up with gf - Page 2

Don't expect to stay friends. gl with the new job, keep busy, and try to move on

did you break up with her or the other way around and what was the reason.

from personal experience.

Dont keep in touch, at least not in the beginning. It makes things a whole lot simpler.

keep standing tall, it gets a little better.

Pretty much all of the above.

I think now your focus should be on getting back to 'normal' (single life, complete independence, fitter-happier more productive, etc) and I'm sure achieving this is different for different people and also dependent on the circumstances of your relationship and how it ended...but I think the safe route is to get rid of everything that would remind you of her, don't stay in touch - basically live as if she doesn't exist - until you get to a point where you don't care, then you can decide. The goal though is to get thru the tough times that are of course inevitable. The focus is to do everything you can to make the recovery faster.
Hang out with buddies, stay occupied with hobbies - work out, play some sports...and for god's sake don't jump into a rebound relationship, lol!

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