Floofy need girl advice

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On September 07 2013 13:49 Oly wrote: Reopen the thread

no

3 by a mile

Never tell a girl "I love you" first.

And no, she wasn't testing you. She's scared of commitment.

What you need to do is to back off, completely. Don't talk to her for a few weeks. Not a single fucking word. Then talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't mention anything about the absence.

However, I think you should go with your room mate. The first girl just seems like sex-happy.

But you shouldn't listen to me because I'm a home-wrecker.

On September 07 2013 14:53 Gnarly wrote: Never tell a girl "I love you" first. And no, she wasn't testing you. She's scared of commitment. What you need to do is to back off, completely. Don't talk to her for a few weeks. Not a single fucking word. Then talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't mention anything about the absence. However, I think you should go with your room mate. The first girl just seems like sex-happy. But you shouldn't listen to me because I'm a home-wrecker.

I didn't tell her "i love you", i'm not this stupid. But i probably did sound like i was really serious about her cuz i said things like "that night was really special". So yea ur 100% right she's scared of commitment, which is actually exactly what she told me. So yea ur advice is spot on.

What's wrong with a sex happy girl thought? But yea she is... she's like nympho type of girl. And also she does sound weird... her appartment was HORRIBLE. Like ghetto horrible. And she told me me about a weird story about being wrongly on meds for 10 years, and not having finished school cuz of it etc. It does sound bad but other than that she was cool. I mean, i think she's a girl that had a rough past (adopted, abusive parents at some points, meds, etc), but she really do seem like she wants to go on the right path, she wants to study to be a nurse.

The other girl is way more a "good girl" type of girl. Good values, never had a boyfriend, good grades at school, a vegan, going to college, etc.

Anyways.... i guess even tho there is a chance i could get first girl it doesn't make sense to reject second girl because of that chance... so i supose i should probably just give second girl her shot.

You would truly earn my respect if you could get a 4 some going... Until then, option 3 obviously, maximize your profits and fuck'em all !

NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man. ive never lived with a girl besides a gf, but ive fucked a neighbor and it was awkward as shit, roommate would be way worse

On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man. ive never lived with a girl besides a gf, but ive fucked a neighbor and it was awkward as shit, roommate would be way worse

that's what i thought (its why i never really made any moves), but i mean she's literally chasing me... i guess if i reject her its just as akward?

Also, we live in same house, but she's like on first floor and i'm in the basement, so its not THAT bad, but i guess still fairly akward lol

need pics to decide imho

Pics.

got beaten to it. But I'm surprised it took this long.

On September 07 2013 15:40 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 14:53 Gnarly wrote: Never tell a girl "I love you" first. And no, she wasn't testing you. She's scared of commitment. What you need to do is to back off, completely. Don't talk to her for a few weeks. Not a single fucking word. Then talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't mention anything about the absence. However, I think you should go with your room mate. The first girl just seems like sex-happy. But you shouldn't listen to me because I'm a home-wrecker. I didn't tell her "i love you", i'm not this stupid. But i probably did sound like i was really serious about her cuz i said things like "that night was really special". So yea ur 100% right she's scared of commitment, which is actually exactly what she told me. So yea ur advice is spot on. What's wrong with a sex happy girl thought? But yea she is... she's like nympho type of girl. And also she does sound weird... her appartment was HORRIBLE. Like ghetto horrible. And she told me me about a weird story about being wrongly on meds for 10 years, and not having finished school cuz of it etc. It does sound bad but other than that she was cool. I mean, i think she's a girl that had a rough past (adopted, abusive parents at some points, meds, etc), but she really do seem like she wants to go on the right path, she wants to study to be a nurse. The other girl is way more a "good girl" type of girl. Good values, never had a boyfriend, good grades at school, a vegan, going to college, etc. Anyways.... i guess even tho there is a chance i could get first girl it doesn't make sense to reject second girl because of that chance... so i supose i should probably just give second girl her shot.

I'm not saying she's a nymph, I'm saying that y'all are infatuated with each other mainly because of the sex. However, if she's a nymph... If you can't keep up, someone else will.

On September 07 2013 15:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man. ive never lived with a girl besides a gf, but ive fucked a neighbor and it was awkward as shit, roommate would be way worse that's what i thought (its why i never really made any moves), but i mean she's literally chasing me... i guess if i reject her its just as akward? Also, we live in same house, but she's like on first floor and i'm in the basement, so its not THAT bad, but i guess still fairly akward lol

Yeah, at that point, things between y'all have gone through a door you can't go back through. If you date another girl, your room mate will become jealous as fuck.

well, i don't have pics of my roomates, and the pictures i have of the first girl REALLY don't do her justice. WHen i sent her a message on the dating web site it was a bit like a "bleh ugly but i guess fuckable". When i saw her IRL i was like wtfff lol. She's like wayyy better looking IRL.

On September 07 2013 15:57 Gnarly wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 15:40 Floofy wrote:   On September 07 2013 14:53 Gnarly wrote: Never tell a girl "I love you" first. And no, she wasn't testing you. She's scared of commitment. What you need to do is to back off, completely. Don't talk to her for a few weeks. Not a single fucking word. Then talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't mention anything about the absence. However, I think you should go with your room mate. The first girl just seems like sex-happy. But you shouldn't listen to me because I'm a home-wrecker. I didn't tell her "i love you", i'm not this stupid. But i probably did sound like i was really serious about her cuz i said things like "that night was really special". So yea ur 100% right she's scared of commitment, which is actually exactly what she told me. So yea ur advice is spot on. What's wrong with a sex happy girl thought? But yea she is... she's like nympho type of girl. And also she does sound weird... her appartment was HORRIBLE. Like ghetto horrible. And she told me me about a weird story about being wrongly on meds for 10 years, and not having finished school cuz of it etc. It does sound bad but other than that she was cool. I mean, i think she's a girl that had a rough past (adopted, abusive parents at some points, meds, etc), but she really do seem like she wants to go on the right path, she wants to study to be a nurse. The other girl is way more a "good girl" type of girl. Good values, never had a boyfriend, good grades at school, a vegan, going to college, etc. Anyways.... i guess even tho there is a chance i could get first girl it doesn't make sense to reject second girl because of that chance... so i supose i should probably just give second girl her shot. I'm not saying she's a nymph, I'm saying that y'all are infatuated with each other mainly because of the sex. However, if she's a nymph... If you can't keep up, someone else will.

what do you mean i can't keep up? we probably did stuff for like 3 hours or more, and i could easily fuck her almost as much as she wants, thats not the issue.

she also told me i made her cum multiple times with fingers, and i don't think she lied. (but strangely first time this happened, usually girls remove my hands after first orgams).

If you're needy you're needy. You can act that you're not, but all you're just covering symptoms of a greater problem. The self always comes through in the end.

Only way to stop being needy in this case is fixing the root cause - scarcity with women of that caliber. You have to know deep down that given not that long of a time you can get a girl of the same quality/that you're equally attracted to. If not eventually you're going to fuck up that relationship (sometimes in very subtle ways). And then you will fuck up the next one. And the next one. Till you learn the lesson.

Asking which girl you should see and whether you should fuck multiple girls just comes down to your values - you can listen to another persons opinion, but in the end it's your call as it's (more or less) subjective. If you do decide to fuck more than 1 - my advice to you would be to be very careful about what kind of relationship you are projecting in her eyes and hopefully after the 2nd or 3rd hook up (in a non-dramatic way, but serious, not directly after sex and in private) something like - 'I have to tell you something, because I respect you and I need to be honest with you. I really like you and enjoy your company and I want to keep seeing you. But at this point of my life I don't want to be exclusive. I understand if that's not cool for you.You don't have to make a decision about this now, but I want you think about it' Sometimes she will walk away, often she will stay - in which case she probably will still push for a relationship later on, but at least you have set the right frame from the start.

Do you live in montreal floofs?

On September 07 2013 16:02 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 15:57 Gnarly wrote:   On September 07 2013 15:40 Floofy wrote:   On September 07 2013 14:53 Gnarly wrote: Never tell a girl "I love you" first. And no, she wasn't testing you. She's scared of commitment. What you need to do is to back off, completely. Don't talk to her for a few weeks. Not a single fucking word. Then talk to her like nothing ever happened. Don't mention anything about the absence. However, I think you should go with your room mate. The first girl just seems like sex-happy. But you shouldn't listen to me because I'm a home-wrecker. I didn't tell her "i love you", i'm not this stupid. But i probably did sound like i was really serious about her cuz i said things like "that night was really special". So yea ur 100% right she's scared of commitment, which is actually exactly what she told me. So yea ur advice is spot on. What's wrong with a sex happy girl thought? But yea she is... she's like nympho type of girl. And also she does sound weird... her appartment was HORRIBLE. Like ghetto horrible. And she told me me about a weird story about being wrongly on meds for 10 years, and not having finished school cuz of it etc. It does sound bad but other than that she was cool. I mean, i think she's a girl that had a rough past (adopted, abusive parents at some points, meds, etc), but she really do seem like she wants to go on the right path, she wants to study to be a nurse. The other girl is way more a "good girl" type of girl. Good values, never had a boyfriend, good grades at school, a vegan, going to college, etc. Anyways.... i guess even tho there is a chance i could get first girl it doesn't make sense to reject second girl because of that chance... so i supose i should probably just give second girl her shot. I'm not saying she's a nymph, I'm saying that y'all are infatuated with each other mainly because of the sex. However, if she's a nymph... If you can't keep up, someone else will. what do you mean i can't keep up? we probably did stuff for like 3 hours or more, and i could easily fuck her almost as much as she wants, thats not the issue. she also told me i made her cum multiple times with fingers, and i don't think she lied. (but strangely first time this happened, usually girls remove my hands after first orgams).

If you think you can handle her sexual needs for a long, long time to come, then go for it.

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Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

rofl

and 3 ldo , wtf

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

>ugh, she's lonely
>I feel sorry for her
>so I'm not going to hang out with her

And so, the cycle continues. Life moves on, the wind erodes the rock, water rises and falls. The sun will eventually die, and our galaxy will clash into another galaxy. Shhh, only doom now.

On September 07 2013 16:53 tomson wrote: If you're needy you're needy. You can act that you're not, but all you're just covering symptoms of a greater problem. The self always comes through in the end. Only way to stop being needy in this case is fixing the root cause - scarcity with women of that caliber. You have to know deep down that given not that long of a time you can get a girl of the same quality/that you're equally attracted to. If not eventually you're going to fuck up that relationship (sometimes in very subtle ways). And then you will fuck up the next one. And the next one. Till you learn the lesson. Asking which girl you should see and whether you should fuck multiple girls just comes down to your values - you can listen to another persons opinion, but in the end it's your call as it's (more or less) subjective. If you do decide to fuck more than 1 - my advice to you would be to be very careful about what kind of relationship you are projecting in her eyes and hopefully after the 2nd or 3rd hook up (in a non-dramatic way, but serious, not directly after sex and in private) something like - 'I have to tell you something, because I respect you and I need to be honest with you. I really like you and enjoy your company and I want to keep seeing you. But at this point of my life I don't want to be exclusive. I understand if that's not cool for you.You don't have to make a decision about this now, but I want you think about it' Sometimes she will walk away, often she will stay - in which case she probably will still push for a relationship later on, but at least you have set the right frame from the start.

your probably right... here's what i think tell me if it makes sense...

When flirting her on the internet, her pics were ugly, so i was like, just another chick i can get somewhat easily, and it worked well. But when i fucked her, i realized she's like... way better looking than i thought, but also, REALLY good in the bed. I mean her looks are nothing special im sure many of u guys get better looking girls than her, but seriousy her oral sex skills were crazy. So i got kinda over excited about her and from there i think she realized i was serious about my interest in her, so thats where she freaked out....

Btw i got no desire to actually fuck both and no desire to hurt them. Its just that, for some reasons i feel more interested in the first one (which might be normal considering she's the one i fucked, and her insane oral skills, and being a nympho, while the other one i don't even know if she's ready for sex). But i'm not sure i still got a shot with the first one.

On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man.

^ this.

On September 07 2013 18:05 Mortensen8 wrote: Dude just date this loner roommate I feel sorry for her.

for the record i don't think she's deseperate. Yes she's a loner (its crazy, whatever tv series i tell her about she watched it or heard about it), and doesn't go out much, but she's not ugly or anything, and she told me guys hit on her but she's "picky".

However, call me crazy, but its like the first girl's personality is way more attractive. I know us guys are mostly about looks but idk, i think im way more attracked to first one even tho looks wise there isn't a big difference.

Another thing tho, i guess i probably have way more in common with second girl tho...

The girl that learned the games you like is way better for you than the other obv

I vote find non-bleh girls.

take a chill pill with 1st girl. see what happens. you made some extremely poor decisions but i don't think all is lost quite yet. look at it from the perspective that she just wants some bs free fun, adventure and great dick and then deliver on bs free fun/adventure/great dick.

more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting.

in this particular situation if it's only a roomate situation for 3-6 months i think i might just say play ball floofman. otherwise i don't know. part of this may or may not be b/c i would love to see followup floofman blog posts of results.

Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean.

One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit.

Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol



I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder.

Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: I vote find non-bleh girls. take a chill pill with 1st girl. see what happens. you made some extremely poor decisions but i don't think all is lost quite yet. look at it from the perspective that she just wants some bs free fun, adventure and great dick and then deliver on bs free fun/adventure/great dick.

agreed. Wish i could go back in time cuz this should have been easy =/

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting.

About other girls, i think the problem is my game is all based around the internet, but eventually there is a limit to the number of girls in my town that are on dating web sites. I probably need to learn to flirt IRL girls. But not sure best places to meet them, never loved bars and same for my friends.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: in this particular situation if it's only a roomate situation for 3-6 months i think i might just say play ball floofman. otherwise i don't know. part of this may or may not be b/c i would love to see followup floofman blog posts of results.

its a roomate for 8 months approximatly. i'm also a little bit afraid she could be the type of girl who might want to wait out for the sex, considering she's both a virgin and seems a bit stuck up. Normally i would just go ahead and try, and dump her if she's stuck up but its not as easy with a roomate lol. However i'm usually good at getting girls which are into me to have sex quick, they say i know how to make them confortable.

On September 07 2013 19:48 RiKD wrote: more importantly, there are other non-bleh girls that give great head and are fun and exciting..

for the record, idk how many girls blowed you off, but for me, i had exactly 6 girls suck me off

1 was horribad at it, teeths n stuff, 20/100
1 was bad cuz kept switching hands n mouth was annoying, 25/100
3 were somewhat in the same league... no teeths, good rythm etc. 50/100

but that one... WOW. not only was her lips pretty generous so u felt it much more, but idk i felt her tongue 10x than usual and it was doing all kinds of things... usually sex is better than blowjob, but with her, it was opposite. 90/100

Her only downside is she didn't want to swallow.

pick the girl who gives u better blowjobs

im surprised nobody has asked for pics

u didnt see that bicep?

This doesn't seem particularly fair for the room mate girl!! You fucked the fat + Show Spoiler +

one, so you've got all kinds of shit flowing in your veins because of that oxytocin and shit (not literally). So maybe if you fuck the room mate as well, just to make sure!!

It would be fun if you make like a challenge with 10 competitions, where we stack them up against eachother, and whoever does best wins the prize (you). We could also perhaps make a thread, and have a poll here on lp for what competitions would be most awesome, yay.

Hmm, we also need to help you get hold of a camera, maybe you can borrow one, we want lots of pictures (yay), from all kinds of angles xD

On September 07 2013 19:17 djforever wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 15:49 Daut wrote: NEVER FUCK A ROOMMATE. dont shit where you eat man. ^ this.

I DISAGREE STRONGLY!! (or I STRONGLY DISAGREE), whatever sounds coolest.

Just make sure your not doing the shitting in the room you eat, voilà or á (I'm not sure, and I'm too lazy to google again, used my googling energy bar on the word fat, and it's still replenishing).

On September 07 2013 19:31 Baalim wrote: The girl that learned the games you like is way better for you than the other obv

What if he likes shitty games, then you're stuck with a girl who plays shitty games (Juacqh). Like the Sims or something, blerk (dealbreaker).

On September 07 2013 20:16 Floofy wrote: Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean. One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit. Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder. Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game.

Holy shit, look at those guns!!

Omg, now another picture, where you have the girl sitting on your bicep/shoulder area, I'm sure you're strong enough for that xD (you could like, put a fridge or something on the other side, for equilibrium lol).

omfg I came on my keyboard. Gross.

the "don't fuck your roommate" advice can't be stressed enough, sooner or later you'll almost certainly be sorry you did it and then you won't even have a sanctuary to fall back to
It's like committing to living together with a girl you slightly know , a ton of things can go wrong, if you are ready for "moving out asap" or "cold war era" scenarios then be my guest

there should be a movie about floofy
or a book based on games or looks

On September 08 2013 02:51 Mariuslol wrote: Show nested quote + On September 07 2013 20:16 Floofy wrote: Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean. One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit. Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder. Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game. Holy shit, look at those guns!! Omg, now another picture, where you have the girl sitting on your bicep/shoulder area, I'm sure you're strong enough for that xD (you could like, put a fridge or something on the other side, for equilibrium lol).

lol,for the record, this picture probably makes my arms look a bit bigger (angle n shit), and secondly, my training was growth training, not strenght training, so i'm not THAT strong lol Doesn't matter i'm training for the looks mostly Chicks often say they don't care bout muscles but they're just lying.

On September 08 2013 10:21 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 08 2013 02:51 Mariuslol wrote:   On September 07 2013 20:16 Floofy wrote: Btw guys, one thing i noticed is working out seems to have helped me a lot. When my GF broke up with me 4 months ago, i got like super motivated, went to the gym 2-3x a week and eating super clean. One really funny proof is, i actually sent first girl a message 4 months ago, just after my breakup, and she ignored it. Sent a new one 2 weeks ago, where my profile picture changed (where its obvious i got some muscle) and now she added me on facebook. She justified herself saying back then she didn't want a relationship but i call bullshit. Even the roomate girl, i've been here for 4 months and she only recently got heavy on the flirting. I guess she could justify it easily by the fact i had a girlfriend for the last 3 months but whatever lol I now want to get a 6 pack but seems to a bit harder. Also i know game is more important than this, but it def seems to help, and it also probably indirectly helps the game. Holy shit, look at those guns!! Omg, now another picture, where you have the girl sitting on your bicep/shoulder area, I'm sure you're strong enough for that xD (you could like, put a fridge or something on the other side, for equilibrium lol). lol,for the record, this picture probably makes my arms look a bit bigger (angle n shit), and secondly, my training was growth training, not strenght training, so i'm not THAT strong lol Doesn't matter i'm training for the looks mostly Chicks often say they don't care bout muscles but they're just lying.

Like, nigga. Never change yourself for pussy. Damn, first rule of THA GAME!

(the thing girls care most about are butts. this was an experiment done with my senior class: both sexes had a survey to take on what they looked for the most in the opposite sex. Girls look at butts the most, guys look at the personality. The least looked at are switched, too, which is funny. Girls just don't give a fuck who you are)

Erm Gnarly wtf is that lol

First of all, we all know most guys care about looks... this is... not even up for debate lol. I mean, yea sure the first girl had a great personality and it def boosted her attractiveness, but if she looked like my third girfriend, no personality could save her lol

and secondly, the GAME never says not to improve your looks... improving your looks is never bad. And i'm just seeing that working out is helping even more than i thought it would. I mean just look at some facebook picture of some ripped male body (not even showing the face) and ur gonna have tons of girls saying like "AWWW SO SEXY" "WOW THIS A DREAM" etc. Many girls love that shit they just won't admit it. However i still got a long way to go to look like those guys's bodies, but it would def help me i don't even doubt it.

Its not just about the looks, it also helps the confidence, and it also helps girls "feel safe" around u.

Of course, some guy with great game >>>>>>> some guy with a nice body, i'm just saying the nice body won't hurt.

well you look like a nice canadian white boy with a great smile and is about 6"0.

no homo.

i think u have a lot of options go fuck everything that move

indeed, 6'1, and thanks.

45 comments already lewl

On September 08 2013 11:06 Floofy wrote: Erm Gnarly wtf is that lol First of all, we all know most guys care about looks... this is... not even up for debate lol. I mean, yea sure the first girl had a great personality and it def boosted her attractiveness, but if she looked like my third girfriend, no personality could save her lol and secondly, the GAME never says not to improve your looks... improving your looks is never bad. And i'm just seeing that working out is helping even more than i thought it would. I mean just look at some facebook picture of some ripped male body (not even showing the face) and ur gonna have tons of girls saying like "AWWW SO SEXY" "WOW THIS A DREAM" etc. Many girls love that shit they just won't admit it. However i still got a long way to go to look like those guys's bodies, but it would def help me i don't even doubt it. Its not just about the looks, it also helps the confidence, and it also helps girls "feel safe" around u. Of course, some guy with great game >>>>>>> some guy with a nice body, i'm just saying the nice body won't hurt.

Guys don't care about looks, otherwise our sexual messaging towards women wouldn't be over 60%. Girls do, that's why they only message like 10%? (and by messaging, I don't mean actual message, but that's what the study called it) Yes, looks may get our sexual urges going, but in the long run, a guy cares more about who the girl is rather than what she looks like.

Yes, having game is much better than having a body. Just ask Casanova, a fat guy who women couldn't stand not to get fucked by.

I've come to the conclusion that it's looks for men in so many different topics, books and articles.

Take the amygdala for instance, it precedes the visual cortex by like 0,2 sec and we have no say in the matter, youth, vibrance, fertility, shit like that matters sick much for men. And women are the "fools" who go after confidence, money, humor, feeling safe and shit like that.

I think

On September 08 2013 10:50 Gnarly wrote: (the thing girls care most about are butts. this was an experiment done with my senior class: both sexes had a survey to take on what they looked for the most in the opposite sex. Girls look at butts the most, guys look at the personality. The least looked at are switched, too, which is funny. Girls just don't give a fuck who you are)

girls choosing butts is no surprise, just evolution.

More often than not men with firm buttockses will be good at hunting, thus being able to provide for a family, which makes them a lot more attractive in women's eyes

I don't really want to help you, because I guess I'm one of the few who thinks that wanting to put your dick in every hole you see is gross. I mean, are you a dog?

Just one thing that you're not thinking about. Apparently, the vegan girl is very into you. When a girl is really into you, she's gonna want to pleasure you a lot. Since she's inexperienced, you can easily teach her what you like, and she will learn it. This will help with her insecurities because she's gonna be able to see how much pleasure she gives you. After a lot of practice she will do all the stuff you liked from last time, the tongue stuff the other girl did, and the swallowing which the other girl didn't, is almost guaranteed*. Also, she lives close to you, this means she is a better source of steady gratification, since she'll be over much more often. Another factor is that you've developed a friendship with her, which means it's most likely to last longer, unless you act like an asshole and fuck it up (like seeing other girls). If it lasts, it means less messing around and waste of time trying to get into a hole and having one always warm and ready upstairs. Oh yeah, and she's cleaner too... since she's not a nymph. Who really wants to be dating a girl who fucked so many guys anyway? If the other girl is just as decent looking as you said, and hasn't been rammed by a hundred dirty quebecois, choice is pretty easy in my mind.

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I dont think the real GAME is what most people think GAME is. Also women dont really go for money & confidence if you throw that at them at first sight thats a myth. No decent human being likes an obvious douche. I also dont believe in such class researches since its a "closed society" and even if done anonymously its not really anonymously, if you made it public that would be real statistics, still makes no sense why would women choose butts tho, its men that should choose butts & hips since that would indicate the woman s stable to reproduce

And tbh Floofy stop being a lil cunt, you 100% know what you want, you probably just think its bad for you and look for an excuse not to do it. Who the fuck asks for love advices in a public forum honestly are u 14?

On September 08 2013 15:19 Spitfiree wrote: I dont think the real GAME is what most people think GAME is. Also women dont really go for money & confidence if you throw that at them at first sight thats a myth. No decent human being likes an obvious douche. I also dont believe in such class researches since its a "closed society" and even if done anonymously its not really anonymously, if you made it public that would be real statistics, still makes no sense why would women choose butts tho, its men that should choose butts & hips since that would indicate the woman s stable to reproduce And tbh Floofy stop being a lil cunt, you 100% know what you want, you probably just think its bad for you and look for an excuse not to do it. Who the fuck asks for love advices in a public forum honestly are u 14?

Noo, you got it wrong, like, if you have a sick awesome car, it doesn't work if you brag about it, or try and show it off. But if the car is just "there" and ur all like "Pffth, i dun even care" and it's just ur vehicle, then they fall for it.

Don't think butt is real either, lol

lots of ppl ask for advice, its both fun, educational, and you get to write, which is always cool.

On September 08 2013 15:19 Spitfiree wrote: I dont think the real GAME is what most people think GAME is. Also women dont really go for money & confidence if you throw that at them at first sight thats a myth. No decent human being likes an obvious douche. I also dont believe in such class researches since its a "closed society" and even if done anonymously its not really anonymously, if you made it public that would be real statistics, still makes no sense why would women choose butts tho, its men that should choose butts & hips since that would indicate the woman s stable to reproduce And tbh Floofy stop being a lil cunt, you 100% know what you want, you probably just think its bad for you and look for an excuse not to do it. Who the fuck asks for love advices in a public forum honestly are u 14?

Just like marius said, sometimes just writing about it can help you. Also getting confirmation on the right to do is always good. You also sometimes see interesting point of views you didn't think about. You are right when i made this i probably didn't plan to blindly listen to you guys, but it doesn't hurt to get second opinions.

On September 08 2013 15:06 Loco wrote: I don't really want to help you, because I guess I'm one of the few who thinks that wanting to put your dick in every hole you see is gross. I mean, are you a dog? Just one thing that you're not thinking about. Apparently, the vegan girl is very into you. When a girl is really into you, she's gonna want to pleasure you a lot. Since she's inexperienced, you can easily teach her what you like, and she will learn it. This will help with her insecurities because she's gonna be able to see how much pleasure she gives you. After a lot of practice she will do all the stuff you liked from last time, the tongue stuff the other girl did, and the swallowing which the other girl didn't, is almost guaranteed*. Also, she lives close to you, this means she is a better source of steady gratification, since she'll be over much more often. Another factor is that you've developed a friendship with her, which means it's most likely to last longer, unless you act like an asshole and fuck it up (like seeing other girls). If it lasts, it means less messing around and waste of time trying to get into a hole and having one always warm and ready upstairs. Oh yeah, and she's cleaner too... since she's not a nymph. Who really wants to be dating a girl who fucked so many guys anyway? If the other girl is just as decent looking as you said, and hasn't been rammed by a hundred dirty quebecois, choice is pretty easy in my mind. *+ Show Spoiler +

What's gross is how women are way more attracted to men who fuck a lot of girls, over men who doesn't fuck a lot. Thats the game, the more u fuck different girls the more girls wants to fuck u.

But honneslty i'm REALLY not confortable with cheating tho. Never done it and don't plan on it.

About your advice, i'm not quite sure about it. My ex, at least when she really loved me, was really concerned about pleasing me ( she would do it every time we had sex, and outside of sex, and was fine with swallowing), but she never could suck like that. Her lips were much smaller, and her mouth was small which made it harder with my size. Don't get me wrong, her blowjobs were fun, but that new girl was on a whole different cock sucking league.

However u probably do have points... its indeed way easier to see her, probably more likely to last longer, etc.

Dat subtle brag.

On September 08 2013 16:22 napoleono wrote: Dat subtle brag.

I'm also the guy who complained about some erections problems a few months ago, so give me a break

Nah its not about the women you've slept with. You just have to appear as a social butterfly or whatever the term is. Dont know with what do they associate such behaviour thought, doubt its "oh this guy is really easy going i bet he fucked at least 100 girls, ill be 101 and i shall win him to be my shining knight" but then again i wouldnt be surprised if thats the case either

I think its more on an unconscious level, like "A lot of women want this one, I have to see if I can get him too, and see if I can keep him, raowrr!!"

On September 08 2013 16:59 Mariuslol wrote: I think its more on an unconscious level, like "A lot of women want this one, I have to see if I can get him too, and see if I can keep him, raowrr!!"

ya this

On September 08 2013 15:06 Loco wrote: I guess I'm one of the few who thinks that wanting to put your dick in every hole you see is gross. I mean, are you a dog?

this. i'm surprised no one eles has mentioned it.

It seems like you want to fuck anything and everything that's available to you. disgusting. Just because you have an opportunity at screwing some random, trashy nympho, doesn't mean you should.

Are you in some kind of competition to see how much girls you can stick your dick in? very meaningful life you're living there..

It's like this:

A girl who doesn't have a guy sleep with her, yet he sleeps around, will feel un-attractive

god damnit, bring back the best thread that has existed in this site...

LOL @ byrne's post on last page of the looks/game thread:

http://www.liquidpoker.net/poker-forum/410813/316/Looks_or_Game_.html

loooooooooooooooool holy shit

On September 08 2013 15:52 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 08 2013 15:06 Loco wrote: I don't really want to help you, because I guess I'm one of the few who thinks that wanting to put your dick in every hole you see is gross. I mean, are you a dog? Just one thing that you're not thinking about. Apparently, the vegan girl is very into you. When a girl is really into you, she's gonna want to pleasure you a lot. Since she's inexperienced, you can easily teach her what you like, and she will learn it. This will help with her insecurities because she's gonna be able to see how much pleasure she gives you. After a lot of practice she will do all the stuff you liked from last time, the tongue stuff the other girl did, and the swallowing which the other girl didn't, is almost guaranteed*. Also, she lives close to you, this means she is a better source of steady gratification, since she'll be over much more often. Another factor is that you've developed a friendship with her, which means it's most likely to last longer, unless you act like an asshole and fuck it up (like seeing other girls). If it lasts, it means less messing around and waste of time trying to get into a hole and having one always warm and ready upstairs. Oh yeah, and she's cleaner too... since she's not a nymph. Who really wants to be dating a girl who fucked so many guys anyway? If the other girl is just as decent looking as you said, and hasn't been rammed by a hundred dirty quebecois, choice is pretty easy in my mind. *+ Show Spoiler + What's gross is how women are way more attracted to men who fuck a lot of girls, over men who doesn't fuck a lot. Thats the game, the more u fuck different girls the more girls wants to fuck u. But honneslty i'm REALLY not confortable with cheating tho. Never done it and don't plan on it. About your advice, i'm not quite sure about it. My ex, at least when she really loved me, was really concerned about pleasing me ( she would do it every time we had sex, and outside of sex, and was fine with swallowing), but she never could suck like that. Her lips were much smaller, and her mouth was small which made it harder with my size. Don't get me wrong, her blowjobs were fun, but that new girl was on a whole different cock sucking league. However u probably do have points... its indeed way easier to see her, probably more likely to last longer, etc.

I think It's more "the more girls wants to fuck you.. then the more girls wants to fuck you"

nomsayin, you don't need to actually fuck them

4 pages and no pics
im disappoint

wtf don't advise floofy to go for the roomate. It's not really going to last because he doesn't like her enough to make a move on his own (even while she's throwing herself at him) and it will totally fuck her up if she's some sort of needy loner the way floofy portrays her. Then, after it doesn't work, when floofy tries to spread the floofjuice to more dating site members, it will be super awkward with her in the house and it could result to her depression etc
Sure he could make her do whatever he wants at sex if she likes him enough to learn his video games, but I doubt it's worth the pain (or even just awkwardness )it will bring, if floofy can't comfortably see a future in a relationship with this girl...

tl dr: fucking a roommate and not aiming for a long relationship is dumb most of the times, if said roommate is also in love and/or needy it's going to be a nightmare 100%

TITTIES !!!!!

On September 09 2013 05:09 lebowski wrote: wtf don't advise floofy to go for the roomate. It's not really going to last because he doesn't like her enough to make a move on his own (even while she's throwing herself at him) and it will totally fuck her up if she's some sort of needy loner the way floofy portrays her. Then, after it doesn't work, when floofy tries to spread the floofjuice to more dating site members, it will be super awkward with her in the house and it could result to her depression etc Sure he could make her do whatever he wants at sex if she likes him enough to learn his video games, but I doubt it's worth the pain (or even just awkwardness )it will bring, if floofy can't comfortably see a future in a relationship with this girl... tl dr: fucking a roommate and not aiming for a long relationship is dumb most of the times, if said roommate is also in love and/or needy it's going to be a nightmare 100%

one of the big reasons i didn't make any moves is exactly because she's my roomate! I was afraid that if i'm wrong then it be super akward. Some girls can sometimes seems like they're into you, and they're just attention whores.

tbh if it wasn't for the first girl, i would probably go for it whitout too much thought. I mean she's decent looking, enjoys all the tv series i love (prison break walking dead breaking bad etc), is willing to learn some games, and is probably very into me, and no efforts at all to see her.

i'm mostly afraid of the scenario where i accept to date her and 2 weeks later the first girl comes back to me, because then yea its gonna be a mess if i dump her for another girl after taking her virginity or something like that. I really liked the time i spent with that first girl... like.. lemme try to explain... yesterday i meet another girl, and kissed her, but idk it felt... dull. With that first girl, everything felt so intense, and she was so good at everything, always smiling and had like sparks in her eyes...

Btw i'm not sure where u guys get the idea i can make the roomate girl do whatever i want at sex. She's a virgin that never had a relationship, who's probably not super confortable with sex, i'm not even 100% sure she's ready for that. Sex wise, there is simply no doubt to me she can't beat the first girl.

virgin? how old is she? I thought they dont exist , unless underage

On September 09 2013 09:12 nlloser60 wrote: virgin? how old is she? I thought they dont exist , unless underage

Oh, they exist.

However, floofly, it seems you yourself also have commitment issues?

On September 09 2013 09:12 nlloser60 wrote: virgin? how old is she? I thought they dont exist , unless underage

19. She said she's "picky", but also being a social loner probably means she isn't flirted nearly as much.

On September 09 2013 12:31 Gnarly wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 09:12 nlloser60 wrote: virgin? how old is she? I thought they dont exist , unless underage Oh, they exist. However, floofly, it seems you yourself also have commitment issues?

Well i did want to commit with the first chick, and i think the chick kinda guessed it so thats what scared her =/

i dont mind LTR, been 4 years with my ex.

On September 09 2013 07:18 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 05:09 lebowski wrote: wtf don't advise floofy to go for the roomate. It's not really going to last because he doesn't like her enough to make a move on his own (even while she's throwing herself at him) and it will totally fuck her up if she's some sort of needy loner the way floofy portrays her. Then, after it doesn't work, when floofy tries to spread the floofjuice to more dating site members, it will be super awkward with her in the house and it could result to her depression etc Sure he could make her do whatever he wants at sex if she likes him enough to learn his video games, but I doubt it's worth the pain (or even just awkwardness )it will bring, if floofy can't comfortably see a future in a relationship with this girl... tl dr: fucking a roommate and not aiming for a long relationship is dumb most of the times, if said roommate is also in love and/or needy it's going to be a nightmare 100% one of the big reasons i didn't make any moves is exactly because she's my roomate! I was afraid that if i'm wrong then it be super akward. Some girls can sometimes seems like they're into you, and they're just attention whores. tbh if it wasn't for the first girl, i would probably go for it whitout too much thought. I mean she's decent looking, enjoys all the tv series i love (prison break walking dead breaking bad etc), is willing to learn some games, and is probably very into me, and no efforts at all to see her. i'm mostly afraid of the scenario where i accept to date her and 2 weeks later the first girl comes back to me, because then yea its gonna be a mess if i dump her for another girl after taking her virginity or something like that. I really liked the time i spent with that first girl... like.. lemme try to explain... yesterday i meet another girl, and kissed her, but idk it felt... dull. With that first girl, everything felt so intense, and she was so good at everything, always smiling and had like sparks in her eyes... Btw i'm not sure where u guys get the idea i can make the roomate girl do whatever i want at sex. She's a virgin that never had a relationship, who's probably not super confortable with sex, i'm not even 100% sure she's ready for that. Sex wise, there is simply no doubt to me she can't beat the first girl.

well tbh if she's a virgin it will take some time for her pleasing skills to develop to a great lvl (a bit faster with good guidance) because she'll first have to feel comfortable to really enjoy sex and to loosen up and get creative. But by teaching her everything you'll eventually get everything exactly the way you like it, or close to it anyway; basically what Loco said in that post about this is spot on. But these things aren't like math; don't start such a relationship half hearted and ready to jump back to the first girl according to her mood changes, an emotional shitstorm will surely ensue and you'll be living in the center of the cyclone too. Chemistry is important and there's a million ways things could not work out with the roommie, I say only go for it if you have your head straight about it, if you feel experimental or not sure etc stick with girls that aren't virgins (meaning girls who are prob. less fragile emotionally ) and don't share living space with you

Roommates do not matter. Fuck the roommate and try dating her. If that doesnt work 1 or both of you just move out and get a new apt. It is very easy to get a new place/find new roommate.

Life too short to live by some made up rules. If shit gets bad, life moves on

LOLLLLLL

On September 09 2013 14:38 lebowski wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 07:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 05:09 lebowski wrote: wtf don't advise floofy to go for the roomate. It's not really going to last because he doesn't like her enough to make a move on his own (even while she's throwing herself at him) and it will totally fuck her up if she's some sort of needy loner the way floofy portrays her. Then, after it doesn't work, when floofy tries to spread the floofjuice to more dating site members, it will be super awkward with her in the house and it could result to her depression etc Sure he could make her do whatever he wants at sex if she likes him enough to learn his video games, but I doubt it's worth the pain (or even just awkwardness )it will bring, if floofy can't comfortably see a future in a relationship with this girl... tl dr: fucking a roommate and not aiming for a long relationship is dumb most of the times, if said roommate is also in love and/or needy it's going to be a nightmare 100% one of the big reasons i didn't make any moves is exactly because she's my roomate! I was afraid that if i'm wrong then it be super akward. Some girls can sometimes seems like they're into you, and they're just attention whores. tbh if it wasn't for the first girl, i would probably go for it whitout too much thought. I mean she's decent looking, enjoys all the tv series i love (prison break walking dead breaking bad etc), is willing to learn some games, and is probably very into me, and no efforts at all to see her. i'm mostly afraid of the scenario where i accept to date her and 2 weeks later the first girl comes back to me, because then yea its gonna be a mess if i dump her for another girl after taking her virginity or something like that. I really liked the time i spent with that first girl... like.. lemme try to explain... yesterday i meet another girl, and kissed her, but idk it felt... dull. With that first girl, everything felt so intense, and she was so good at everything, always smiling and had like sparks in her eyes... Btw i'm not sure where u guys get the idea i can make the roomate girl do whatever i want at sex. She's a virgin that never had a relationship, who's probably not super confortable with sex, i'm not even 100% sure she's ready for that. Sex wise, there is simply no doubt to me she can't beat the first girl. well tbh if she's a virgin it will take some time for her pleasing skills to develop to a great lvl (a bit faster with good guidance) because she'll first have to feel comfortable to really enjoy sex and to loosen up and get creative. But by teaching her everything you'll eventually get everything exactly the way you like it, or close to it anyway; basically what Loco said in that post about this is spot on. But these things aren't like math; don't start such a relationship half hearted and ready to jump back to the first girl according to her mood changes, an emotional shitstorm will surely ensue and you'll be living in the center of the cyclone too. Chemistry is important and there's a million ways things could not work out with the roommie, I say only go for it if you have your head straight about it, if you feel experimental or not sure etc stick with girls that aren't virgins (meaning girls who are prob. less fragile emotionally ) and don't share living space with you

Anyways, tbh, when it comes to vaginal sex i found it reasonably similar no matter the girl, virgin or experienced (one exception is the first girl i slept with, i think her pussy was too wide). What made the biggest difference is condom or no condom. Of course super nice oral is a nice plus, but i guess i shouldn't base my decision on that.

However as u said chemistry is important, and i gotta say i think i had the best chemistry ever with the first girl, both in talking/normal way and sexual way, which is probably why i'm not just snap picking the roomate. Its hard to tell what chemistry i would have with the roomate. At least when it comes to "friendship" its nice, we can have interesting convos and we seems to have interest in common. But generally u don't get super good sexual chemistry with virgins because they aren't too confortable.

Anyways here's some more info about first girl:
We meet on last monday, and it went REALLY well, imo. She said she do sometimes get guys as good as me with fingers, sometimes guys as good as me with dick, but never someone so good at both.
The next day, everything was fine, we talked on facebook as usual she seemed all good still.
The next day, i plan a second date and she seemed to look forward to it. The problem comes when she tells me she finish work late and she wants to postpone it (she wasn't bullshitting, i know for a fact that was the truth). I insisted that we just see each others after her work anyways... at first she said yes, but then she told me some weird shit like she's afraid of such mutual love feelings, even tho she really thinks it could work, and that she just needs time. This is where i really fucked up cuz i just kept pushing, and the end she said worse things like "i don't want a relationship with anyone and u can't respect that".
Then, the next day, i just sent her a message, kind of long, where i explained that on facebook sometimes there are misunderstandings, that we should just forget all of this, and that i understand she needs time, and that when she's ready, we can meet for a walk or something and she can give me back my stuff at the same time.
She saw the message, but didn't answer anything. Since then, we both ignored each others, even thought we are often both online.

Thing is, i will surely have to see her again to get my stuff back, and she knows it.

So, i have no idea what my chances are with first girl, but i think it might be smart that i don't do much with roomate until i see the first girl to get my things back, cuz who knows what will happen then.

Words can't describe how overjoyed I am to see this spin off of your thread. I knew this was going to be a good month.

On September 09 2013 14:39 Highcard wrote: Roommates do not matter. Fuck the roommate and try dating her. If that doesnt work 1 or both of you just move out and get a new apt. It is very easy to get a new place/find new roommate. Life too short to live by some made up rules. If shit gets bad, life moves on

Some made up rules? how revolutionary of you lol
More like common sense (or unfortunate life experience)
My guess is that "simply" moving out if things go bad with your virgin roommate sounds easier if it is an advice to some unknown dude on the internets and not yourself and your own apartment and a real person's emotions. But I have to admit it would spice things up in floofy's blog, so ok

Please, don't ever stop posting.

this thread calls for a poll

On September 09 2013 14:38 lebowski wrote: well tbh if she's a virgin it will take some time for her pleasing skills to develop to a great lvl (a bit faster with good guidance) because she'll first have to feel comfortable to really enjoy sex and to loosen up and get creative. But by teaching her everything you'll eventually get everything exactly the way you like it, or close to it anyway; basically what Loco said in that post about this is spot on. But these things aren't like math; don't start such a relationship half hearted and ready to jump back to the first girl according to her mood changes, an emotional shitstorm will surely ensue and you'll be living in the center of the cyclone too. Chemistry is important and there's a million ways things could not work out with the roommie, I say only go for it if you have your head straight about it, if you feel experimental or not sure etc stick with girls that aren't virgins (meaning girls who are prob. less fragile emotionally ) and don't share living space with you

+100 I had a virgin. At first I thought OMG this sucks.... but if she is really into you then she wants to learn... and she learns exactly how you show her . Obviously, you have to show her tha sex is great so don't ever forget about her too. If she sees, that you're pleasing her, she'll please you.
Still though, they're looking for LTR so if u don't, you can hurt her really badly. That's down to your morality.
Don't think you'll have worse sex in the end. When she learns, she'll be fantastic.
The first girl who is "wide" LOL, maybe too many cocks .

On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting.

You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it.

I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship

One funny thing is the girl admitted the appartment owner told her that i seemed like a player (when i first got here i invited like 5 different girls or something to come over in my room, only slept with 3 of them but she didn't know that). Its like being a player and seeming like an asshole is a chick magnet. Most funny thing is yesterday she asked me for a date and i told her no, got something to do. I actually went to date another girl (bleh only got to make out), and today she told me "hey, am i being paranoid i think you canceled our date to go date another girl?" i was like... no? and she was just like, oh ok i'm happy then! But this girl is smart i bet she suspect something... and today she pretty much forced me to hold her hand and asked me "is it going too fast for you?". I jokingly said i usually don't hold hand until 3 months of dating... but yea i guess i gotta calm down with dating other girls. Shit i almost hope the first girl doesn't want me anymore cuz its gonna be a shit situation if she comes back, at this point its pretty tough to reject the roomate.

loving every laugh

On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship

I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me).

But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

Regardless, that's a pretty shitty thing to do.

On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else.

it did matter to me, she was still a friend. And exactly, u would still show it so thats why i'm not gonna continue.

Anyways right now i think i'm just going to go out with her. Rather go out with a girl chasing me than one running from me. And no i don't plan on cheating on her or dumping her for no reasons.

Back when i was with my ex i actually rejected 2 pretty decent girls for her.

I like how loco talks shit about Floofy being a misogynistic, then goes around and acts like a douchebag behind Floofy's back for his own entertainment.

And then will keep showing this thread to whomever loco feels should be "protected" from Floofy. Lawl.

the thing is i'm actually probably 10x better to women than most guys. I never cheated on any girlfriends and avoid flirting during relationships. Its more when i'm single that i tend to flirt like a bunch of women at the same time, but the main reason for that is that i know a lot of those flirts won't work so i'm just saving time. ALso if you just concentrate on one women that really do interest you, the women will tend to see that you're interested in her for real, and that turns em off for strange reasons. I am like 100% sure that if i actually didn't give a crap about the first girl and just seen her as another hole, i would still be fucking her. But she saw that i really had interest in her and wanted to be a good guy for her, so yea i got rejected.

i mean whatever, when you put women on some sort of pedestral and really have respect for them, you get rejected all over the place. i don't really blame guys for being assholes to them anymore.

>probably 10x better to women than most guys

^
Thats only cause of his size man

i need cliffs or something here i'm so lost...

too many girls not enough pics.

so you chose the roommate?

loco dats fukd up yo

On September 10 2013 07:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 10 2013 02:12 Loco wrote:   On September 09 2013 21:18 Floofy wrote:   On September 09 2013 16:59 iop wrote: Please, don't ever stop posting. You know what's the main reason i stopped posting? Some moron LPer (i think it was loco) actually showed looks or games to one of the girls i flirted with. Here's why i stopped it. I also didn't really see much interest in it when i got into a relationship, but i was arguably wrong since i failed my relationship I don't remember what happened back then, only remember how you messed up with some girl you loved desperately and me and Fayth talked to her and might have showed her the thread, but iirc you had been rejected already so it didn't matter. Tbh I would also show this thread to the vegan girl. She says she's "picky", so hopefully she doesn't choose you to be her first, because you'd suck for that, if not in general. She deserves better than you if she's 19 and still a virgin while apparently your highest priority in life is to have as many holes as possible to put your penis in while being able to get away with it. You remind me of a friend of mine who used to be fat and bullied when he was young, and started working out in his early 20s, and suddenly gained a lot of arrogance and started treating women like trash, like means to an end. He didn't realize he was overcompensating for some really bad insecurities from his childhood. (edit: funnily enough this is exactly what happened to you, re-reading the LOG thread and seeing your misogynistic comments there confirmed that to me). But seriously, forget what I said; don't get involved with the virgin roommate if you think you could ditch her for someone with more sexual experience. Either focus on her alone and see if you begin to like her more, or be clear with her you just want to be friends. Even you can most likely admit that she deserves better than being used during the time that you are not being gratified by that someone else. it did matter to me, she was still a friend. And exactly, u would still show it so thats why i'm not gonna continue. Anyways right now i think i'm just going to go out with her. Rather go out with a girl chasing me than one running from me. And no i don't plan on cheating on her or dumping her for no reasons. Back when i was with my ex i actually rejected 2 pretty decent girls for her.

That's a pathetic excuse not to continue your freak show, considering I have no means to contact her or even know who she is. And I mean I have a 0% chance of letting her know, since I don't even know anything about you in the first place, so who are you kidding? Plus, I'm not that interested in showing this to her anyway, if she is dumb enough to want you to be her first, so be it. That's my opinion. I was basically just saying that as a matter of principle, if I had to choose a course of action, I'd prioritize the prevention of harm over your fleeting pleasure, assuming that you would play the girl. But if you can trivialize her like that (see option 3), I also think she'd benefit from knowing it before she gets too emotionally involved. We sometimes can't know people well until we see how they act with people other than ourselves, where their true motives become clear.

On September 10 2013 11:07 Tien wrote: I like how loco talks shit about Floofy being a misogynistic, then goes around and acts like a douchebag behind Floofy's back for his own entertainment. And then will keep showing this thread to whomever loco feels should be "protected" from Floofy. Lawl.

I had to read this post 4 times and I still don't think I understand it (or at least understand how you came to write this shit). I honestly don't even remember what happened back then, it was like 4-5 years ago, but somehow you know enough about it to call me a douchebag now? And even if I did something you qualify as wrong back then, how does that remove anything from the misogynistic comments Floofy made? You made it sound like there's some hypocrisy on my part, wtf? You even had the guts to say I "talked shit" about the misogyny. He called girls "retarded animals" and did a lot of fucked up shit severely disrespecting girls. Also what makes you so sure I did it (if I actually did it) for entertainment? Maybe it was so she could know how much of an asshole he really was (and if you doubt that, go read the thread yourself, please). He says she was a friend, but what kind of friend divulges some deeply personal shit about you for random ppl's entertainment? Or is that suddenly right because it was "just a girl"? Is that your reasoning? For all I know by the way it could have been Fayth's idea, that's one of the few details I remember, I was talking to this girl with him when this happened. But go ahead and keep acting like you know everything.

And as I said in my previous post, (and apparently you know nothing about me and Floofy to say this), I can't possibly do that thing you say I will do. I was stating that I would have no qualms doing it out of principle if it were possible. In reality I don't give a shit about Floofy's life and it can never happen. It does bother me though if he doesn't get seriously involved with a girl like that and just sees her as an opportunity for sexual gratification while keeping his options open. I know it's really cool for some of you guys to sleep with as many girls as possible, but it becomes depraved when in your view it's completely fine to treat a reclusive virgin the same way as that average bar/club/party girl.

On September 10 2013 11:13 Floofy wrote: the thing is i'm actually probably 10x better to women than most guys. I never cheated on any girlfriends and avoid flirting during relationships. Its more when i'm single that i tend to flirt like a bunch of women at the same time, but the main reason for that is that i know a lot of those flirts won't work so i'm just saving time. ALso if you just concentrate on one women that really do interest you, the women will tend to see that you're interested in her for real, and that turns em off for strange reasons. I am like 100% sure that if i actually didn't give a crap about the first girl and just seen her as another hole, i would still be fucking her. But she saw that i really had interest in her and wanted to be a good guy for her, so yea i got rejected. i mean whatever, when you put women on some sort of pedestral and really have respect for them, you get rejected all over the place. i don't really blame guys for being assholes to them anymore.

Not cheating on your girlfriend is a basic standard of human decency. It's not something to be proud of, and certainly not something to use in order to claim that you treat women 10x better than other guys.

I do get your point about interest and I have found the same thing to be true: if you show strong interest in a particular kind of easygoing girl, she will freak out, even if she does have some interest. I think that in order for this to happen though it has to be a superficial relationship in the first place, there is no real bond between you and her, and unless you are a superficial person or a sex addict, you shouldn't be consciously seeking that anyway. With a compatible, non-shallow girl you can show interest (not maniacal interest/lust, actual genuine interest in the person's personality), and it can be reciprocated and something more lasting can happen there. I guess that's just not something you're likely to find on dating websites though, but it's what's actually worth pursuing in my opinion.

Your using her as an example of why it's better to treat women like shit is so fking terribad because you said that this girl you liked is a nymph. It doesn't take a genius to figure out that if she was that easy to get in your bed, and she's a nymph, then she's not likely to want a real relationship with you... she's that kind of easygoing girl that you should be careful not to pressure because she wants to have fun with guys and that's all. You basically got owned by your hormones ("she's the best thing I've ever had omg I need more of it!" ) and that's all, it's no justification to treat all women like trash as if it's likely to benefit you in the grand scheme of things; it'll only benefit you with the kind of girl that will never be more than just a hole, because you won't scare her away. Don't confuse the two (and don't confuse your lust for genuine interest) and you won't have that problem again.

soooooooo....floofy what's been going on man?

#shotsfired

Visiting for the first time since 08 and youre still posting about girls Love LP and how some things never change

or you could say the more things change, the more things stay the same. :DDD