Girl bad beat - Page 2

On October 13 2013 15:29 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On October 13 2013 15:25 Gnarly wrote: Did you make sure to spread her legs out as much as you can? Can't dick a girl with closed legs. Edit: btw if youre giving her orgasms at least make her suck you off or something lol fucking reciprocation man i made her suck, but i think i went a bit hard and went too deep and she said she didn't like it too much. Then she admitted it was her first time sucking. then i didnt really bother again. I guess next time ill get her to suck more, it was indeed unfair how i probably gave her like, maybe 10 orgasms in the weekend and she barely gave back anythin...

Tell her is she doesn't start giving back, you'll stop giving entirely.

It's partly mental for the chick, especially if she's 26 and never got banged.

What you do is: You need to make her feel relaxed, and the best way to do this is long make-out sessions. When you're fingering her, she mentally knows that it will feel good, and that it's only 1-2 fingers going inside of her, which she's experienced before with other guys and by herself.

There's the missionary position when a guy is on top of a girl, so keep this in mind when I explain further. Anyway, a girls mind is thinking of how great things feel when you're kissing her, and her pussy walls will be more relaxed when you're on top of her without any penetration. The next time you're doing a long make out session with her, make sure you're both naked and you're in the missionary position with her, and then place your dick on the outside of her pussy while kissing her, but be aware, she will naturally tense up and not let you enter, but this is a given. Just leave the tip of your dick resting on the outside of her pussy, and then as you're continuing to kiss her, start to slowly poke it in with soft thrusts while never fully going in. This is so her brain will eventually lower her guard to your soft pokes, and she starts to think you won't actually stick it in all the way. Eventually, you'll be able to get the crown of your dick in, and from there you should be good to go.

I'd recommend some type of lube, as you want everything to be extra slippery, but if she naturally gets wet a lot, you can just figure it out on your own.

On October 13 2013 15:59 ktp wrote: Floofly please take the MTBI test for your personality so you know your value: http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/jtypes2.asp INTJ?

He can't be intj. Masterminds are always five dicks ahead.

On October 13 2013 16:07 PuertoRican wrote: It's partly mental for the chick, especially if she's 26 and never got banged. What you do is: You need to make her feel relaxed, and the best way to do this is long make-out sessions. When you're fingering her, she mentally knows that it will feel good, and that it's only 1-2 fingers going inside of her, which she's experienced before with other guys and by herself. There's the missionary position when a guy is on top of a girl, so keep this in mind when I explain further. Anyway, a girls mind is thinking of how great things feel when you're kissing her, and her pussy walls will be more relaxed when you're on top of her without any penetration. The next time you're doing a long make out session with her, make sure you're both naked and you're in the missionary position with her, and then place your dick on the outside of her pussy while kissing her, but be aware, she will naturally tense up and not let you enter, but this is a given. Just leave the tip of your dick resting on the outside of her pussy, and then as you're continuing to kiss her, start to slowly poke it in with soft thrusts while never fully going in. This is so her brain will eventually lower her guard to your soft pokes, and she starts to think you won't actually stick it in all the way. Eventually, you'll be able to get the crown of your dick in, and from there you should be good to go. I'd recommend some type of lube, as you want everything to be extra slippery, but if she naturally gets wet a lot, you can just figure it out on your own.

This sounds like a decent advice. Are you speaking from experience? I mean i somewhat did this, but not as well as your describing and i didn't have lube. Next time ill try something like that i guess....

I just read somewhere that it could be vaginismus, and this scares the shit out of me because it can take a year to cure, i'm not exactly interested in no intercourse for a year lol But if its vaginismus, its only partial because i could actually stick in 2 fingers.

The game from "look or game" has changed quite a bit.

I think PuertoRicos advice is pretty sound.

But since you got your own issues (erections etc) she can probably feel this and become even more insecure. A really long foreplay sounds like the strategy here. Why force it like this and it becomes even more akward and hard.

If you have a grower, lure it in when it's at it's smallest, that might be interesting

thanks floofly i love your blogs bro good luck

On October 13 2013 16:58 Mariuslol wrote: If you have a grower, lure it in when it's at it's smallest, that might be interesting

well obviously my dick is like 2x larger once erected. but i never really tryed to insert my flacid dick into a vagina, and im worried what the result would be lol.

On October 13 2013 16:48 SpasticInk wrote: I think PuertoRicos advice is pretty sound. But since you got your own issues (erections etc) she can probably feel this and become even more insecure. A really long foreplay sounds like the strategy here. Why force it like this and it becomes even more akward and hard.

If i dont jerk off for 2-3 days, with this girl, at least in the first hour, i got no problems having a decent erection, at least enough to get it in. But after a while i was starting to be less erected (we did kissing and sex whitout penetration for like hours).

I actually can't blame her too much for her sexual problems considering how i kinda had similar problems lol. She is getting a mental blockage which prevent her from intercourse and i used to have a mental blockage which prevented me from ejaculating. Seems like i have a lot in common with this girl...

The technical thing isnt a big problem, it just takes a bit of time. Its mostly just because of her being a virgin. You just need to make her feel relaxed and go on stretching her vagina very slowly. Like start with your fingers or buy a small sized dildo. Definately use a lubricant at first. It will probably hurt her a little any way you go about it, but its ok as long as its just a little. Whatever you use (fingers, dildo or your penis), go very slowly in and let her tell you when it hurts, then stop, maybe kiss a little more, then go a little bit further. The first (or first few) intercourse(s) wont probably be great for her and she might not get an orgasm, but it will get better pretty soon. You can also have her practice herself with a dildo.

I think if you like that girl overall its probably worth it to be a little patient. If you go on to become her first sexual partner, not only will she have quite a strong emotional attachment to you because of that, but you can also teach her to do all the things just the way you want to (which might be a problem sometimes with a girl who was used to something else before and doesnt want to change it to your likings).

yeah pretty much agree with most people so far

making out, touching, fingering, lube, also try different positions - for some girls it seems like they are really tight in one position but not as tight in another. A good one might be getting her on top and her being in control of the pressure and how deep she wants it.

Also...

Great blog floofster keep up the good work!

1. LOL
2. Where do you live that there are 26 year old virgins without some sort of mental or physical handicap?

^
Sounds like this girl has quite the physical handicap

I knew a girl in highschool that had to get operated on so she could have sex. She definitely has to go see a doctor and get that thing worked on.

On October 13 2013 17:46 GameOverNoob wrote: 1. LOL 2. Where do you live that there are 26 year old virgins without some sort of mental or physical handicap?

Honneslty dude i have NO IDEA how this girl is still a virgin. I asked her and she said she never went to bars, never did internet dating until recently, and always went in girl heavy schools, and never really looked for a boyfriend.

I didn't understand because this girl is pretty great, cute, funny and not even hard to pick up or anything.

On October 13 2013 18:16 devon06atX wrote: ^ Sounds like this girl has quite the physical handicap I knew a girl in highschool that had to get operated on so she could have sex. She definitely has to go see a doctor and get that thing worked on.

i don't actually think her "handicap" is the main cause of her virginity. I actually believe her when she says only 1 other guy tryed to fuck her before, and that was recently.

On October 13 2013 17:34 Svenman87 wrote: yeah pretty much agree with most people so far making out, touching, fingering, lube, also try different positions - for some girls it seems like they are really tight in one position but not as tight in another. A good one might be getting her on top and her being in control of the pressure and how deep she wants it. Also...

i can try that. Also a girl friend of mine advised me to buy her a dildo smaller than my dick, and try it with that dildo, and like gradually buy bigger dildos...

Btw, a bit off topic but, i managed to take a picture of her in panties, smiling at me, in my room. i liked the picture so i put it as wallpaper. She told me... hey i hope you don't bring that laptop to school

On October 13 2013 17:21 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On October 13 2013 16:48 SpasticInk wrote: I think PuertoRicos advice is pretty sound. But since you got your own issues (erections etc) she can probably feel this and become even more insecure. A really long foreplay sounds like the strategy here. Why force it like this and it becomes even more akward and hard. If i dont jerk off for 2-3 days, with this girl, at least in the first hour, i got no problems having a decent erection, at least enough to get it in. But after a while i was starting to be less erected (we did kissing and sex whitout penetration for like hours). I actually can't blame her too much for her sexual problems considering how i kinda had similar problems lol. She is getting a mental blockage which prevent her from intercourse and i used to have a mental blockage which prevented me from ejaculating. Seems like i have a lot in common with this girl...

I understand you're extremely introverted. I'm even more so than you. QUIT FUCKING THINKING SO MUCH. Don't think about what jacking off or not jacking off will do to you. Lol.