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On June 13 2014 09:15 Santafairy wrote: Show nested quote + On June 13 2014 07:36 bigredhoss wrote: idk what a meme arrow is why do you want a girlfriend so bad? just enjoy being single for a while and try to get your shit together there isn't really such a thing as a meme arrow it's common punctuation used for quoting/indirect speech you may have encountered it before if you ever replied to an email for instance

nope never seen it used like that before

perhaps what you need is to meet people either similar to yourself or on the complete opposite of the spectrum (super confident / genuinely don't give a fuck about anything). Normal people are likely to be intimidated or scared of someone in your situation, you need someone who will either empathize with you or someone who won't think too much of it. Sounds like you are constantly interacting with regular folk and disappointing with the results. You may need to narrow your vision and be more selective with whom you select to become your friend(s). There are a lot of fake confident people (who easily fold to pressure) out there, it may be easier to find and connect with more vulnerable people since they are typically more sincere

Most likely you are not an extrovert, and more people around you will drain you of the energy you need to work on yourself.

dude just relax, its one girl, u have to be willing to open ur heart to many and open to understanding that it will be smashed many times most likely b4 you find the right girl.

she prob has a bf or met someone by the sounds of it.

take ur time, go out more, have more fun, talk to a plethora of girls, then 1 cant get u down, at least not in the short term, if u go with her long term, then u leave urself more vulnerable.

finding new friends isn't so easy, but go to where you're intrests are,you will find like minded ppl from there, im sure you're deceased friends would want you happy.

i kinda know how u feel, things get better sir.....although your story is sickkkk

And like someone said before don't spill your heart out to a girl or even a potential friend as much as you might want to. Once you make a real close friend if you can see.they will handle it go ahead. But to the opposite sex there is really no point to make yourself look bad. people might act like they don't care but they just can't help from making a judgement and potentially seeing you in a different light.

What's a secret. By definition it is something you have a reason to conceal from other people. Usually this reason is something embarrassing or bad or makes you look bad. Girls all the time will want to know your secrets and try to play games to find them out. But really what is the benefit of telling some girl you spent time in an institution, or that you cheated on a girl in the past, or that you committed a crime, or that you had problems with drugs. She won't be able to help but wonder if any of those things are going to happen again if she invests herself into you. The further removed from those things she is herself the more she is going to be disappointed and to some degree begin to look down on you. Doesn't matter how much you have changed or are working to change or how great of.a person you might really be you will be tarnished in her eyes.

So keep it to yourself lol

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On June 13 2014 07:00 bigredhoss wrote: why do you put a 'greater than' sign before all your lines of text

because he's greater than his problems!

It's not about a romantic relationship. It's about me being able to form any sort of relationship with anyone. The last time anyone has ever hit me up to ever do something besides the one time this year that my friend who know acts like he doesn't know who I am, was years ago. Literally, fucking YEARS ago.

turns out I'm bipolar.