Part 4 - A Taste of Pleasure - Page 4

You're seriously doing sole self destructive shit man
You keep pushing her away on purpose

show her this thread. end this misery

On December 22 2018 18:37 k4ir0s wrote: Show nested quote + On December 22 2018 08:51 LemOn[5thF] wrote: You're seriously doing sole self destructive shit man You keep pushing her away on purpose Explain? My intention isn't to push her away. Was my last text that bad? You guys were right from the start about no-contact. i'm hoping I didn't ruin my chances. She apologizes, so clearly she still has respect for me. that's good.

You're being really selfish and needy here by constantly contacting her, pushing her, buying her presents, spilling your heart, trying to push yourself into your life....

She's asking you for space, tells you she isn't available, she all but told directly you she wants space to wonder about you and have the freedom to pick you herself, and instead you're just doing what you want - the need for certainty or closure and ignore her

On December 22 2018 20:20 dnagardi wrote: show her this thread. end this misery

haha yeah
seriously
don't be dumb
there was never future there
make sure you learn your lessons from this instead,

On December 22 2018 18:37 k4ir0s wrote: Show nested quote + On December 22 2018 08:51 LemOn[5thF] wrote: You're seriously doing sole self destructive shit man You keep pushing her away on purpose Explain? My intention isn't to push her away. Was my last text that bad? You guys were right from the start about no-contact. i'm hoping I didn't ruin my chances. She apologizes, so clearly she still has respect for me. that's good.

No contact is about personal empowerment and healing. It's not about winning back someone who saw no future with you. It just so happens that it's also the best way to illicit doubt and regret in the other person for dumping you, especially when it comes to them seeing that you are living a full life without them down the road. If it comforts you to think about the possibility of winning her back because you are still in the denial stage, then that's fine, because the priority is to do whatever helps you maintain no contact, but you should know that on its own its going to be insufficient, you'll have to do some significant core changes in order to become attractive to the people you find attractive.

You're still making massive leaps in logic. The simplest explanation as to why she is apologizing is because that's just what people do in those situations. You can apologize to someone you dislike for causing them pain, or apologize to someone you pity because it makes you feel good about yourself to know someone is in a worse place than you. She still benefits from you boosting her ego, that's why she's staying in contact with you and keeping up the apparently normal talk. It's not out of respect. For someone to respect you, they have to first know that you respect yourself, and you clearly don't, and she's clearly aware of that by now.

Well did she end up giving you presents? Or was a ton of money wasted on her for no reason.

You're being really weak
And need to learn to be yourself
If you date someone young that lives in your building
And you date her and when it seems like it's starting you to get serious you just decide not to, you state intent and it won't get serious. You can even tell women that upfront
But you definitely don't have to hide behind older women that live far away just because you are too weak to act in your values and wants

Why would you feel uneasy about seeing more than one person at once?

Especially in the early dating stage it keeps things more fun and you don't find yourself getting overly invested in one woman. It breeds an overall attitude that is attractive to women rather than the opposite.

dont expect to find anything other than sluts on online dating, its kinda dry everywhere, unless you are the top 1% men, you will have a lot more quality and abundance if you start going out, even me, Im in the top 1% prob and live in one of the better cities for online dating, sometimes even ugly fat girls are so spoiled and reject me when im trolling

Im a veteran master in this game and know all the tricks, so let me know if you want to know something specific

and you sound liek a pussy tbh, so I dont expect much success lol

agreeing to meet means nothing, most girls stack a lot of dates and then at the day they decide the best one and give some random excuse to the rest ( esp if they agreed to meet with little investment from your part ) so be aware when their dog gets sick

well, gl