RiKD   United States. Mar 30 2025 19:57. Posts 9208
It is normal for people to have anxiety about death. Libido and fear of death are two massive motivations. Sometimes they are unconcsious motivations. Marketers mess with our ability to know what we need and what will be satisfying. They tamper with our imagination as the result of the void. It shows up in weird ways. We fill the void with imagination and consumption. Imagination in the creation of art is good. Imagination in unrealistic expectations for consumption is bad.
I have clothes. I have plenty of clothes. I have an understanding of color theory and can generally dress myself to be passable in society. There is no such thing as authenticity in this regard. Unless maybe if I got my clothes from a small indigenous group of people in South America who custom made me some outfits. Any magazine, any shop, any online store is going to command the title of "purveyor of taste." Personally, I think just wearing white t-shirts and blue jeans everyday is better than falling into the consumption trap. But, in bourgois life there are dress codes...
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RiKD   United States. Mar 30 2025 22:26. Posts 9208
There are written and unwritten dress codes.
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RiKD   United States. Mar 31 2025 00:27. Posts 9208
Stimmung is mood in German.
Stimming is short for self-stimulating behaviors.
Stimming is also short for Martin Stimming. A German composer.
One of my stims is listening to Stimming.
Ich höre Stimming, wenn ich Stimming mache. Es sorgt für eine schöne Stimmung.
Everyone has their stims. Mine are probably due to anxiety or ADHD or Autism. I have never tested positive for the ladder two though.
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RiKD   United States. Mar 31 2025 01:09. Posts 9208
There are written and unwritten dress codes just as there are written and unwritten rules.
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RiKD   United States. Mar 31 2025 17:17. Posts 9208
Oh, geez, they are just clothes, this is embarrassing. If I was a farmer this would not even be on the radar. I am not a farmer though. I am a poor that wants status but not in the conventional ways. Although, wearing business casual and having a 4 bedroom house and a 401k would be nice. Only if I can also afford the servants to clean the house, mow the lawn, pick up dog shit, you know the drill.
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RiKD   United States. Mar 31 2025 17:33. Posts 9208
I fit into the local gym community, the local neighborhood dog walkers community, the read alone by myself community. I fit into the alienated labor community but that does not help anyone. We are all atomized, isolated, and estranged. There is no alienated labor community.
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PuertoRican   United States. Apr 01 2025 05:24. Posts 13174
On March 30 2025 18:57 RiKD wrote:
It is normal for people to have anxiety about death.
If you're reasonably healthy and you're not old, then you shouldn't be thinking about death.
Rekrul is a newb
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RiKD   United States. Apr 01 2025 19:19. Posts 9208
Why not?
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RiKD   United States. Apr 02 2025 20:37. Posts 9208
If you can't write something clearly, don't write anything at all. I think Wittgenstein said something like that. That's about as much as I need from him for now.
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RiKD   United States. Apr 02 2025 20:38. Posts 9208
One needs to think about death if one wants to properly think about life.
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RiKD   United States. Apr 02 2025 20:41. Posts 9208
What are some thoughts on repression?
Most people are perfectly happy to repress death among many other things. Although we are not really consciouss of what we repress until it shows itself in plain day, if it ever does.
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RiKD   United States. Apr 02 2025 22:14. Posts 9208
These days it seems like most people don't care about anything. What about making humans freer and happier? There is a lot of debate about what this entails but I don't think it needs to be perfect or utopic. I asked a friend to lunch the other day. I picked up a piece of dirty paper towell on the floor at the gym. I waved someone ahead at a four way stop. These are all very basic things but they set a tone. I'm trying to move from someone who doesn't care about anything to someone that is trying to make humans freer and happier. So, go ahead and read Anarchy, State, and Utopia by Nozick or Theory of Justice by Rawls or don't read anything. I think there are some common grounds that most can agree on.
Oh, and another thing. Just because someone agrees with a lot of what Marx has to say on Kapital or capitalism doesn't not mean they are for Soviet communism. I've actually met some people who do agree with Soviet communism and that is unfortunate but thankfully this was a small pocket of leftist circles. Some leftists are a bit deranged. It's not a competition of who is more deranged. Maybe we are fucked but I'm sick of being skeptical and cynical of everything under the sun. How do we really make humans freer and happier?
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RiKD   United States. Apr 02 2025 22:32. Posts 9208
A Yale course on Well-Being cites what is basically hygeine for happiness:
Byung-Chul Han on a talk at Korea University talks about handwork. Using one's hands versus digital / fingers. He talks about playing the piano and gardening. 2 things that make him happy when he was never happy before.
Besides social connection and some exercise / meditation these are all individual endeavours. We must overcome atomization and alienation.
I was blindfolded throwing darts at the wall. It was between Simone de Bouvoir's The Ethics of Ambiguity and Baudrillard's Simulacra and Simulation. I kept missing though. Then, I realized I don't want to read either at this point in time and it was back to the drawing board.