Looks or Game? - Page 154

On June 22 2008 08:30 brambolius wrote: I wouldn't be surprised if this thread turns up somewhere as the "Full-O-Fag-Thread"... seriously guys.....isn't it obvious by now that this thread is nothing but an emo-dump. i mean look at floofy's last post, i don't know about all of you but i didn't know if i should laugh my balls off or cry at wtf has become of "MEN" in this day and age. plz close this thread and save lp.net from an overdose of fagness before its too late !

When I wrote my comment it was at 2am at night and I didn't use the kindest words. This was a better way of putting it, since this is turning into an EMO thread and is making men on lp sound luke pussies. Nicely put

On June 22 2008 09:37 Fayth wrote: I understand we all expected this to happen, but some people just have to learn the hard way, he didn't wanna listen to us, now he knows.... let's just hope he really learns from that and doesn't pull off a neilly I just thought that Pav talking about gay stuff was really uncalled for, I didn't see floofy say anything about being attracted to another man.... and if crying makes him gay then I'd be curious to see you if Amanda dumped you all of a sudden for another guy, not crying would make you dead inside lolz

It was 2am at night when I wrote that so I wasn't using my best judgement, I just had enough with this Emo shit already

On June 21 2008 23:39 Floofy wrote: ASDF ASDF ASDF ASDF SICK TILT i just went to karine's party. so basicelly whole night i was kinda bugging her to dance with me but she wouldnt. i didnt know any1 else, but i started talking with some other dude named gabriel. the dude was very nice. he is another guy she met on the net. so since we both didnt know any1 we just stayed together. as i talk to karine during the night my feelings gets back. i feel kinda sad. i look at her and feel.... but at some point, a special music starts, a slow (the romantic dance) SHE DANCE IT WITH GABRIEL. i watch them for 15 second and i start "crying inside". i get the fuck away look away but it dont stop. i panic. i get the fuck out of there in my car whitout saying anything. i cry really hard telling to myself "i love u karine". and i was a little drunk i come home and i delte her off msn, and delete all her pic FUCK YOU KARINE i guess i owe an apology to fayth

this is it

Floofy is the new Chris Crocker

Look, Floofy, It sucks to feel that way, but it's time to be a man. You need to learn to control your emotions and act rationally. Chasing a girl is all fine and good if your enjoying it and not being creepy, but when it's over you move on to the next one. It's also quite a good idea to chase a few at a time. Not only will that up your chances of catching one, but it'll make it a lot less likely to get cought up in this Emo crap. Embarressing yourself and drooling all over a girl who is not interested in you is NOT okay. What your feeling may be completely natural. Every guy may have fealt that way at one point or another. but the way your acting is another thing entirely. Emotional control is part of being a man. So is having pride. Next time you feel this way about some girl who doesn't want you practice some emotional control, have a little pride, and go spend your time chasing some other pretty girl. I'm not going to tell you men and women can't be friends. They can. But at the best of times their are gonna be moments where you think "Fuck... I wish I was fucking her WTF am I listening to this BS for" so it often isn't worth trying to be. When your already feeling the way you do about one it's suicide. Go out, get drunk, make an ass of yourself. I guarentee you no matter how badly you act you'll come off as more attractive to the oppisite sex than by acting like this.


Now buck up and get hunting. Try and enjoy the chase. Sometime down the road you'll relize it's the best part anyway.

Looks or Game? moar like GIVING OR RECIEVING!!!11

On June 22 2008 08:37 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On June 22 2008 00:52 Loco wrote: one day floofy, one day, I believe you will understand that this wasn't love. this is why I'm able to laugh about it, because I know it wasn't love. what you are feeling is not what you think it is. it is the loneliness that is making you feel this way, not HER particularly. and yes, you are totally right, FUCK KARINE. can you hold on to it now? shes not the only girl i meet. i could careless about other ones....

I don't care what you think, reread Loco's post and believe every single word because it's true even if you don't realize it.

As for your feelings right now, it sucks, but don't worry, you can be sure you will be fine in some hours/days(/weeks ?). When you feel bad, cling to the knowledge it will just pass.

If you want to indulge yoursef in the pain (you probably never felt something like that before, so maybe you're "exploring" that novel feeling), don't come back to your senses. Otherwise, snap back to reality, she's just one (worthless) girl, there are a ton of better ones and you'll forget her quickly. Some day, after years of embarassment thinking back to this thread, you'll laugh real hard when remembering this.

On June 22 2008 08:37 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On June 22 2008 00:52 Loco wrote: one day floofy, one day, I believe you will understand that this wasn't love. this is why I'm able to laugh about it, because I know it wasn't love. what you are feeling is not what you think it is. it is the loneliness that is making you feel this way, not HER particularly. and yes, you are totally right, FUCK KARINE. can you hold on to it now? shes not the only girl i meet. i could careless about other ones....

btw thats because shes the only one who gave a fuck about u, well, she thought she did at first but realized she didn't then.

u felt acknowledged and loved and realized it was all false, so it broke you.

a comedian once said "your first girlfriend was special because she was the only other girl to think you're cool other than your mom"

Since you said you were already over her BEFORE this tilt post, the best course of action would have been to meet other people at the party. Either you do that, OR don't go at all, because you receive no benefit from being there.

Trust me when I say you were let down easy son. Chin up

urgh this is embarassing god, im actually going to ask for real advice here lol

i need to close out the deal with this chick
shes been over a couple of times for movies and we went out for the day for lunch
i finished out each visit with a patrik antonius style kiss and a couple of make-out sessions after/during the movies and shes loving that shit

but it still doesnt really feel like theres much between us - other than good friends

think we're gonna have dinner on thursday

any tips for transition from friends to relationship?
do i have to formally mention something? ¬_¬

On June 23 2008 00:41 byrnesam wrote: i finished out each visit with a patrik antonius style kiss and a couple of make-out sessions after/during the movies and shes loving that shit but it still doesnt really feel like theres much between us - other than good friends

dear god u and your friends must be huge perverts lol

On June 22 2008 12:45 Narious wrote: Look, Floofy, It sucks to feel that way, but it's time to be a man.

Not only does Floofy have emotions, he's got the courage to express them ... and then all the wussy boys come out and criticise him for doing what they cannot do. Loco catul et al *** they just lurkkk, scracthing their balls in bewilderment that someone has the courage or stupidty (you choose) to so openly express themselves *** either way - it takes courage to do that ***

P.S. Loco - you still hang out in men's toilets at the mall or moved on from that?

these are mens' stuff karine,you wouldn't understand

you dont make out with your friends.... just start taking her clothes off. alcohol helps

On June 23 2008 01:51 felafel wrote: Show nested quote + On June 22 2008 12:45 Narious wrote: Look, Floofy, It sucks to feel that way, but it's time to be a man. Not only does Floofy have emotions, he's got the courage to express them ... and then all the wussy boys come out and criticise him for doing what they cannot do.

yea lol the most difficult thing is to be emo on the internets
go eat a felafel,plz

On June 23 2008 00:41 byrnesam wrote: any tips for transition from friends to relationship?

You could have sex with her.

Do you make out with all your friends?

lol Brynesam... If what you say is true.. she's obviously into you.. How about taking it a bit further next time you have one of these make out sessions. Alternatively you could refuse to have sex with her until she begs for it
Don't be shy now

I push the boundries - she wont give me access south of the border which makes it way harder to get all-in against her. So i sort of have to slowplay this if i want to get some value later on.

I met her through my best friend from uni and that same night we met we made-out on the couch because i was given a $10 freeroll by another friend if i could make anything happen - obv i won.

Then couple of weeks after that following another night out we made out and she rubbed my penix some and i chewed her nips before i crashed out drunk

So after that nothing really happened - we saw each other the occasional time and we would carry on as normal - its only recently that we've started to get to know eachother rather than being friends of the same friend kind of thing.

and yeh ive made out with a good number of my female friends

I advise option 2 then

whats option 2?

shake hands and tickle her feet?