Looks or Game? - Page 166

On July 22 2008 11:33 Floofy wrote: btw off topic but when i arrived at the movies and waited for her, there was some fucking smoking hot teens outside lol. like rly hot.

u say this like if they were in danger of extinction lol floofy wtf... there are hotchicks at the movies, clubs, bars, school, bus stops, everywhere lol

and i thought she was a dancer at those nude clubs, lol, and actually hot bar tenders are ridiculously hard to get with cause of the other sharks hitting on them as well, so if u pull this off, floofy ftw imo

keep up the good work floofy! sounds like ur getting somewhere at last?

On July 22 2008 11:32 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On July 22 2008 09:21 ggplz wrote:   On July 22 2008 08:28 Floofy wrote: ok yestreday went on a date with a new girl ill protect her identity and call her lea so on msn she was nice but no flirting lea is 21, has 2 jobs. doing massages proffesionnaly and works in a nude dancer club. shes not a top model but i like her, shes slim, and even thought she doesnt have the cutest face ever its my type. shes funny and also seems intelligent so first 30 minute we just took a walk outside and talked. then once we come in cinema, im about to pay and the lady ask "1 or 2 entries?" so lea is like ONEEEE i hate when guys pay things. then shes like, u want something to drink? im like no ty. then shes like, u sureeeee? ill pay it for u!!!. so i finally gave in and she paid me the drink. then nothing happens whole movie (was dark knight btw, great movie). then we talk lil and goes in a tim horton to eat a little, some more talks. she tells me she really likes my eyes at some point then she says she wants to do this again and kiss me on the cheeks. so??? lol are u serious? if so, cool gogo yes im serious but i still have no clue how to proceed other than repeat the exact same thing lol btw i dont think she sells herself. she explained how somebody grabbed her ass and she went nutso about it and she has values etc (at first she hided to me what type of bar she bartends at lol). anyways i hope it workout capaneo r u sure? she clearly stated she hates that we pay things when she said "u want i drink" and insisted i finally said like, ok sure buy me one and handed to her a 10$ bill. she was like nonononoonon its my pleasure i want to pay it for u. btw she constantly said that she is weird and make jokes about it. i was like, wtf is weird about you. she didnt know what to say lol. but she does talk in a curious way.

What do you mean Im sure? She bought u a drink so you owe her one. Tell her that I owe u drinks from before. And then say "I insist" im not sayin to get her a 1000000000 gift! Just buy her the coffee or whatever next time. And ya make sure you do this. Its only common sense.

And I forgot DONT MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT IT EITHER!
make it happen smoothly and dont be so odd about it.

And here we go post #3500

the fact that floofy is floofy and didnt overly try to show off his game is potentially working in his favor in this instance cause this girl is so used to that it makes floofy look different and interesting or something.

i love the world

btw my advice for the next date, if you can sit next to her at some point put your hand on her thigh. Look at her right after you do that and you're gonna tell by her body language if she likes it or not. If she likes it go for the kiss. If not just act uninterested in her and go completely numb to just about anything she says/does to you that isn't a kiss/physical contact. If that fails too then just never go on a date with her again.

this thread should be closed with a celebrating
"ZOMG I GOT LAID" by floofy
*fireworks*
then he would have to start a new thread entitled "what do I do now???"

weeeeeeeeee go!!!!!!

Please tell me this is not the $200 whore....

On July 22 2008 16:17 Baal wrote: Please tell me this is not the $200 whore....

Ha ha, no way the whore pays for drinks.

Can't believe im giving advice but i had a good evening so..

capaneo is actually right about paying the next drink for her. Especially when you don't make a big thing about it it makes you simply look good. You can also do this by making some tip complete after dinner or something.

Now you went on your cinema date you can do 2 things. Keep putting moves on her and wait until she makes a move and/or you are simply 100% sure she likes you. If you attempt this make sure you can keep her interested for longer periods (basically you should be able to tell this from your past conversations) or have common meeting places and especially make sure you are decent in reading body language. I would not do this in your position because it seems that you are too insecure (no offense) and if she's not making a move you maybe are waiting for signals that are already there. It's also a bit of a mutual mindfuck method which is probably not in your best interest, but quite amusing.

That leaves the second option which is basically what crownroyal suggested. Pick a moment and try to get some physical contact. It doesn't have to be as direct as crownroyal suggested, just try to find a reason/joke/remark whatever to get some physical contact going so you get her reaction.
I didn't bother to read the entire thing but basically if you think you get a green light anywhere just go for it. Especially if there are no long term complications if it fails. Mistake most people make is to not go for it when the moment is there.

Hope it helped.

Suici

hold

On July 22 2008 17:38 ggplz wrote: hold

lol

On July 22 2008 12:29 sTrAtO wrote: and i thought she was a dancer at those nude clubs, lol, and actually hot bar tenders are ridiculously hard to get with cause of the other sharks hitting on them as well, so if u pull this off, floofy ftw imo

i did not say shes hot.

actually her dating web site pic is ugly. but she was better IRL
but her body is nice

ROFL @ hold


btw disagree with buy her something, not all girls like to be treated that way and i think she clearly expressed it so, why go against her will? u are so sunken in ur society classic male role u cant see that?

On July 22 2008 16:17 Baal wrote: Please tell me this is not the $200 whore....

obv not.

i keep thinking about her and i still got no clue if shes interested
anyways im going to invite her to "la ronde" (roller coaster thingy) i have 2 tickets. ill attempt to force her to accept the ticket lol

if she insist on paying ill be like sure pay with a massage


positive thinking:
would she pay a drink to a guy she meet 30 minutes ago that she has no interest in?
would she tell me i have REALLY nice eyes in a super serious way if she wasnt interested?
would she tell me she wants to do this again?

negative thinking:
she probably did all of those out of pity or to be nice. she has experience if she wanted something she coulda gotten it ez.

On July 22 2008 18:12 Baal wrote: ROFL @ hold btw disagree with buy her something, not all girls like to be treated that way and i think she clearly expressed it so, why go against her will? u are so sunken in ur society classic male role u cant see that?

kinda agree with this thought

but i do have 2 tickets lol

On July 22 2008 18:12 Baal wrote: ROFL @ hold btw disagree with buy her something, not all girls like to be treated that way and i think she clearly expressed it so, why go against her will? u are so sunken in ur society classic male role u cant see that?

he has nothing to lose by doing it though and he will seem to be considerate and kind, which even if she refuses, she will like

On July 22 2008 18:12 Baal wrote: ROFL @ hold btw disagree with buy her something, not all girls like to be treated that way and i think she clearly expressed it so, why go against her will? u are so sunken in ur society classic male role u cant see that?

Baal - a lot of girls will say this + act like this because they don't want to seem like they are leeching - and they can be quite strong about it and it makes them feel uncomfortable. The key is you need to do it in a way that makes them still comfortable. i.e don't make a big fuss about it, say you owe them one, quickly slip the lady the money for both of you while still talking so she can't interrupt etc etc. The main thing is not being insistant about it and making a big deal about it.

Also floofy this:

"i keep thinking about her and i still got no clue if shes interested
anyways im going to invite her to "la ronde" (roller coaster thingy) i have 2 tickets. Just tell her you got two free tickets from your auntie and you would like her to go with you?!

another thing that was funny

we come near cinema and i open her the door. shes like, let me finish my smoke (cigaret). im like gezz, u just wasted my door opening, im frustrated, idk if ill forgive you,
shes like geez i hope u do (all this flirting tone)
then im like, ur gonna have to open it for me. even when cinema ends!!!

so she did open it lol