Looks or Game? - Page 21

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dont be shame, be game

wow you guys are french nits, it was a joke, though I still agree with what I said. Come to Ottawa you can take notes.

On February 29 2008 19:29 Yugless wrote: rich poker players shit money

I think i am almost there, my shit was green last time but still it was shit. colour then form?

It's all a matter of how you perceive yourself floofy, dress up in decent looking clothes etc. so that any one who sees you for a first time will have an impartial/positive reaction to what they see. Obv if you look like some scraggy bum in raggy stained torn clothes, people will insta have a negative first impression of you. But aside from that, you don't need to be wearing the trendiest designer clothes or sporting the latest hair fashion.

Best advice for conversing with girls is simple: girls are people too. They are not some mysterious race of aliens from another planet, they are just like you and me. Sure, they have different interests and different things make them tick, but every one is unique and part of the fun in meeting new people is discovering what their interests are. When you talk to someone, be interested in what they're saying; if you pay attention to things they say then naturally questions will formulate in your mind when you want to know more about something they said in particular.

I know this sounds kinda lame about trying to teach you how to converse, but in my medical course there are tonnes of socially awkward people who need training in how to comfortably interview patients, and we actually have a subject dedicated for this purpose. I used to think that it was impossible to 'teach' some one social skills, but it really isn't. One of the most important things (probably THE most important thing) is body language. Your words can lie about how you feel and what you think, but often your body language can't. If you don't look confident, you'll be perceived as such. When you talk to people, look them in the eye, try and not to fidget, nod in response to what they're saying, maintain good posture, smile at appropriate times and always try to maintain a happy/friendly 'aura' about yourself.

I kinda went off on tangents so the main point is self-confidence, which is reflected through your body language.

DON"T be the one asking questions, you're supplicating and making her the prize

once you're in iso shut up and enjoy the awkwardness (she'll feel it too) and wait till SHE gives in and starts the questioning thereby supplicating herself to you.

this is also seen as a power play in business negotiations as well and so there has been research on it's effectiveness

Whatever, you can choose to play your stupid mind-games, but such things assume she is attracted to you in the first place. Balanced conversation ftw, if you treat finding someone you like as a "game" where you're consciously manipulating them and not portraying a true image of yourself, you may as well just go to a masquerade ball and fuck some random chick there because nothing is going to be "real".

that is some insipid shit

weekend at a watering hole
people are there for conversation

On March 01 2008 05:02 Steal City wrote: DON"T be the one asking questions, you're supplicating and making her the prize once you're in iso shut up and enjoy the awkwardness (she'll feel it too) and wait till SHE gives in and starts the questioning thereby supplicating herself to you. this is also seen as a power play in business negotiations as well and so there has been research on it's effectiveness

this def does work, but shouldnt always be used ofc

another one i like / find funny (but barely ever do) is if a girl asks you a stupid question ignore it then give her a compliment about the worst looking part of her outfit then she'll be confused as fuck

On March 01 2008 07:11 Rekrul wrote: Show nested quote + On March 01 2008 05:02 Steal City wrote: DON"T be the one asking questions, you're supplicating and making her the prize once you're in iso shut up and enjoy the awkwardness (she'll feel it too) and wait till SHE gives in and starts the questioning thereby supplicating herself to you. this is also seen as a power play in business negotiations as well and so there has been research on it's effectiveness this def does work, but shouldnt always be used ofc another one i like / find funny (but barely ever do) is if a girl asks you a stupid question ignore it then give her a compliment about the worst looking part of her outfit then she'll be confused as fuck

lol wtf

teach us more mind games plz?

im full of them

the mind of a sociopath combined with the heart of ghandi

gandhi was a mysogenist pedo LOL

o shit truths out

wait n/m no secret i was misogenist

def not pedo tho wtf

On March 01 2008 06:10 PokerDoc88 wrote: Whatever, you can choose to play your stupid mind-games, but such things assume she is attracted to you in the first place. Balanced conversation ftw, if you treat finding someone you like as a "game" where you're consciously manipulating them and not portraying a true image of yourself, you may as well just go to a masquerade ball and fuck some random chick there because nothing is going to be "real".

this is why people say hate the game not the playa...

you are playing the same game as me, the same rules of attraction are at play. If you choose to play a weaker game, you'll have a more limited selection of girls to choose from, generally a weaker selection. If I'm into a girl, i also like to be the love of her life. Doing this causes her to have a sense that we've known each other for a long time. How often does she sit isolated with someone in complete silence in an otherwise social environment. Maybe a couple people? This will cause her to perceive you as a person she can trust... is it artificial? or is the increased value you project just a symptom of the fact that you've studied attraction and thus actually ARE a higher value person?

U do realize you attacked me and my integrity in your post... and for what? You are playing the game too and trust me, you will get more high self esteem girls with this approach as to low self esteem girls.

im working on my body langage

i try to walk standing more "straight" and walk more naturally(more relaxed). look at people in the eyes. and hmmm some dude explained to me that when im standing (not walking), i need to put my hands like, close to my dick, a bit like male models does. not at some random stupid place, like in my pants, or the classic arm crossing. also if im going to gesticulate, to do it LOW, not high.

also obvious stuff like, when ur sitting, have your legs put in a manly way, not crossing them like gays, or making them tight which make you look weak. and generally sit in a way that takes a lot of place

if anyone have further body langage advices....

pokerdoc, most chics "improve" their looks with make up and such, thus increasing attraction
nothing wong with "improving" our own male behavior to increase attraction

floofy that stuff is very important but that stuff stems from confidence, not confidence stemming from making an effort to do those things, right?

Put a sock into your pant so it looks like you have a big dick, used to do that when i was a teenager.

LOL