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bleh most of em have gfs n stuff. its hard for me to get friends to go out wiht me

but im gonna meet some dude who claims he can help me, maybe on thursday (nothing sure)

main reason i dont go out is cuz of that, and also cuz i live in very far away location

On September 21 2008 12:32 Floofy wrote: bleh most of em have gfs n stuff. its hard for me to get friends to go out wiht me

That shouldn't be an excuse not to go out anymore unless they're like married and stuff, they can bring their gf's, that's just bonus because you'll be hanging out in a group with girls.

On September 21 2008 12:32 Floofy wrote: main reason i dont go out is cuz of that, and also cuz i live in very far away location

Sounds like an excuse to me - that could be a reason why you don't go out a lot, but not a reason to not go out at all.

On September 21 2008 12:32 Floofy wrote: so? i never used it in a demeaning way. i know im a nerd too, and bunch of this forum are too my point is, if her ex is a nerd, i may have more chance to get with her because it proves she doesnt hate nerds

The word "nerd" is probably one of the most misused words in the known history. Here's m-w's definition of the word:

Pronunciation:
ˈnərd
Function:
noun
: an unstylish, unattractive, or socially inept person ; especially : one slavishly devoted to intellectual or academic pursuits <computer nerds>

Recognice yourself from these traits? So many people misquote the term for interest in stuff like computers, science and whatnot. Notice that his ex might've been a computer enthusiast with glasses, but might not have been socially as capable as a cheap plastic bag. I know some actual nerds and they are utterly incapable of social contact and from what I'm seeing here, you do appear to be one and I sincerely doubt that her ex was nothing like it.

I don't think you're the worst one tho (the worst one I know, actually had a girlfriend too for a few weeks, so that should give you some hope - that "guy/thing" doesn't know the simple concept of personal space for example).

shes 18, works in some cosmetic thingy and also goes to school i think. her ex broke up with her cuz she seems to whine a lot. she seems inteligent.

Yeah, the whining and working in cosmetics seems consistent with being "inteligent". I also like the fact that "she also goes to school i think". Yeah, what does she study? Try paying attention to who she is and appear interested, even if you're not.

she said she dont like her looks but knows everyone likes them lol she claims shes NOT superficial at all

That's also consistent.

she likes dancing and DDR She says she works with fashion but doesnt like it...

Is that DDR thing your opener or something? Does she like tickling or handshaking? Does she study fashion or just work there as part time, thriving to be a rocket scientist or a stripper?

DDR is cuz
its in my dating profile
so she made a comment about it


actually i said a comment about how one of my friend said her ex is an intelectual kind of guy
then shes like. no hes not intelectual. just a nerd lol

anyways she said she works with make up in some pharmacy....
i dont even remember what she studies in exactly but she does study lol

u know when u chat with a girl at beginning its sometimes better to be funny and interesting, rather than talk about work, studies, and things like that

find out normal thinngs about her, her favorite color, her favorite band/artist, favorite movie, etc.. don't be like "are you good at DDR?"

This actually reminds me of this really fat kid who would go to the mall, go to the video game section, and challenge other kids to DDR, as he would bring a big gulp from 7-11 and like 2 pockets full of quarters. He always acted like he was the shit around chicks because he figured that since he can get a high score he can get any chick. was quite hilarious

On September 21 2008 14:02 Floofy wrote: u know when u chat with a girl at beginning its sometimes better to be funny and interesting, rather than talk about work, studies, and things like that

Thanks for the advice!

Somehow I got the idea that neither being funny nor interesting were your forté.
As far as I know, those are pretty much the only things you actually have to be to succeed.

But remembering what she says is important and when you remember, you have more information to work with, not to mention being able to give out the impression that you're interested in more than just banging her all night long, even if it's not true. And this isn't meant to encourage giving compliments and all that, but rather having real interaction.

Sounds like you have no idea what she has said to you

On September 21 2008 15:42 Muhweli wrote: Show nested quote + On September 21 2008 14:02 Floofy wrote: u know when u chat with a girl at beginning its sometimes better to be funny and interesting, rather than talk about work, studies, and things like that Thanks for the advice! Somehow I got the idea that neither being funny nor interesting were your forté. As far as I know, those are pretty much the only things you actually have to be to succeed.

im actually fairly funny and interesting on msn

but when it comes to live.....

God, how does this thread extend by 10 pages every other day I have a look at it....?

On September 21 2008 15:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 21 2008 15:42 Muhweli wrote:   On September 21 2008 14:02 Floofy wrote: u know when u chat with a girl at beginning its sometimes better to be funny and interesting, rather than talk about work, studies, and things like that Thanks for the advice! Somehow I got the idea that neither being funny nor interesting were your forté. As far as I know, those are pretty much the only things you actually have to be to succeed. im actually less of an idiot on msn but when it comes to live.....

fyp

On September 21 2008 15:54 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On September 21 2008 15:42 Muhweli wrote:   On September 21 2008 14:02 Floofy wrote: u know when u chat with a girl at beginning its sometimes better to be funny and interesting, rather than talk about work, studies, and things like that Thanks for the advice! Somehow I got the idea that neither being funny nor interesting were your forté. As far as I know, those are pretty much the only things you actually have to be to succeed. im actually fairly funny and interesting on msn but when it comes to live.....

Right. From what I've seen, you have some developing to do on the MSN side too with gals.

You could get one of these for practice with your girl skills.

ok im not a master msn seducer but i do fairly decent
live i must be one of the worst lol

On September 21 2008 17:19 Floofy wrote: ok im not a master msn seducer but i do fairly decent live i must be one of the worst lol

Yeah, the girls you're getting on MSN are A+.

^--thinks floofy's first sexual experience will be via webcam

and u know, being a nerd isn't an advantage to you, because most couples break up with the intention of looking for something different, maybe she is tired of nerds and your chances are 0

no the dude broke up
she just admitted to me she still loves him and it almost surely wont work with any1 else


she wants to try to get him back

at least you are getting to the point where your hopes and dreams can't be crushed any smaller which once you hit that point you will take all this shit less serious. Probably resulting in better success. yay for dream date crushing.

Forget that girl then, move on to the next :/

i was telling my friend (girl)
oh i think ill still meet her and hope for something

then shes like
STOP

S T O P