Looks or Game? - Page 217

So floofy, You went out. Drank one beer. Got a girls number and called her three times the next day before deciding to call it quits cause MORE would come off as needy?

Sick life.

give the guy a break

the whole game of how often and when to call after meeting some one is fucking pathetic imo

if u want to call them, call them. to hell with all those faggot gay mind games

fuck im 3pages behind and 24tabling... perhaps not a good idea to catch up right now even though i want to!

lost 1 buying but i catched up

don't insist (a lot like u say) to dance with her, ask her 1 time, if she denies i would recommend to go dance with the fatty or somebody else so she won't see you are there for her, after all, you just met and you are not her pet or something, u are there to have fun (she knows that) and if u wanna have fun dancing you should definitely go for it, dance 2-3songs with other girls (not saying you should go after anybody), she will see that hey i guess this guy isn't into me that much and she will feel better around u instead of feeling stalked (or whatever the verb is) then she would actually want to dance with u

also, dancing wit her for the first time a slow song is terrible imo

i would wait 2 days, then call her back, remember you are a busy and interesting person, also you'll have more talking topics to share with her other than

-hey laine how your doing
-laine: fine fine u
-floofy: good thx, other day was fun wasn't it
-laine: definitely, it was cool
- floofy: we should def do it again (don't say when, that way you'll be able to call her again other day), so what are you doing?
-laine: nothing u?
-floofy: nothing either... (2minutes of silence)

edit: you said you called her 3 times, were those in a row? 2hours between each of them or how?

"you know, in the past, i would have kissed you tonight. but ive changed, i prefer taking my time cuz ive been hurt too often"

what did u answer to that? remember that your answers and how you react to their defence system its what matters, not entirely what they say, well, except if they say something like "go away i dont wanna dance with u stalker"

On October 04 2008 19:01 PokerDoc88 wrote: give the guy a break the whole game of how often and when to call after meeting some one is fucking pathetic imo if u want to call them, call them. to hell with all those faggot gay mind games

well the thing is that if we apply that for floofy and this situation he would've called 75 times today

On October 04 2008 20:04 sTrAtO wrote: lost 1 buying but i catched up don't insist (a lot like u say) to dance with her, ask her 1 time, if she denies i would recommend to go dance with the fatty or somebody else so she won't see you are there for her, after all, you just met and you are not her pet or something, u are there to have fun (she knows that) and if u wanna have fun dancing you should definitely go for it, dance 2-3songs with other girls (not saying you should go after anybody), she will see that hey i guess this guy isn't into me that much and she will feel better around u instead of feeling stalked (or whatever the verb is) then she would actually want to dance with u also, dancing wit her for the first time a slow song is terrible imo i would wait 2 days, then call her back, remember you are a busy and interesting person, also you'll have more talking topics to share with her other than -hey laine how your doing -laine: fine fine u -floofy: good thx, other day was fun wasn't it -laine: definitely, it was cool - floofy: we should def do it again (don't say when, that way you'll be able to call her again other day), so what are you doing? -laine: nothing u? -floofy: nothing either... (2minutes of silence) edit: you said you called her 3 times, were those in a row? 2hours between each of them or how?

the Way X days is for insecure retards imo, call when u fee like going out, just dont be a desperate geek about it.

tonight i went out with the fatty and her bf. the chick wasnt there

anyways heres a pic right before going out


planning to try and call her again tomorow
for strato's question, i called her like 1-2 hours intervals


anyways, this girl can get asshole players all she wants. its what she has gotten most of her life
she wants a nice guy
so i dont think not calling her for a while and acting too independant is that good of an idea
she cannot even call me!

where the hell is your hand

On October 05 2008 00:29 Loco wrote: where the hell is your hand

!!!!!!!

loco with the keen eye

anddd i love this thread

pedo smile

how is this not a reality tv show yet?

On October 04 2008 10:10 Floofy wrote: and she complains those guys always only wanted her ass

You should be honest and admit that that's what you want too. Girls love honesty.

Oh and wtg with the "I used to be ugly and shy"- comment :D Made my day. Which one of these attributes did you get rid of btw?

Managing to actually touch a girl in a non-tickling fashion (in the dancefloor) is nice tho, but it ain't a good sign if they want to stop dancing. I don't want to be the realist here, but I'd draw the conclusion that going to dance with her isn't the best idea and here's why: Either you suck at dancing or at something else to the point that she doesn't want to be seen with you in a setting like this OR she sucks at dancing and just feels embarraged to be dancing - either way, it's probably not +EV Sounds to me that she just didn't feel comfortable (at the time).

Funny tho that she "used to be" the girl who always had a bf and did some drugs (sounds slutty :D), but says she's shy. I'm preeeetty sure that this isn't consistent. I like how she told you the number might not work beforehand tho. Lol.

A couple of more things tho.

a) You say she would get any asshole player she wants (or they could get her). A girl that is appealing to this group of people can't only get the assholes but anyone she wants (lower in the foodchain of love). No girl (okay, there might be exceptions) admits to wanting to go with "those guys". Just a thought. They're the kind that she'll be cheating you with.

b) I agree that arbitrary rules to when you should call a girl are both overrated and dumb - however, it has been said in the thread for about a thousand times that don't be needy. When people (me amongst others) say "You should definitely call her with 2 hour intervals between until she picks up and send messages at the same rate", they're been sarcastic. The fact that you're trying to reach her celphone simply means that SHE WILL KNOW YOU CALLED. Which will also mean that she will call back when she has the time/she wants to. Bombing her with calls will convey a realistic needy image of you to her and we wouldn't want that. So in short: Calling her the next day was ok, but only the first call.

c) Where the hell is your hand?

muh she cannot call back
my home phone doesnt work cuz of internet and my cell has no time left. and she specified she cant do long distance calls cuz shes busto.

first its not true i ONLY want her ass, i do think shes really interesting long term
about the dance im not sure the exact reason. if she really didnt want to dance with me, she wouldnt have went in the first place. it was a slow (romantic dance), anyone can dance that, i dont think any of us were being bad.

lets be clear, she doesnt claim she is super shy, but she isnt super outgoing either. she especially have trouble with oral presentations and dancing in front of people. but she def wasnt completly shy she talked to me a lot.

"You say she would get any asshole player she wants (or they could get her). A girl that is appealing to this group of people can't only get the assholes but anyone she wants (lower in the foodchain of love). No girl (okay, there might be exceptions) admits to wanting to go with "those guys". Just a thought. They're the kind that she'll be cheating you with."

yes she can get "lower people" ez.
yea she could want to cheat me with them, but she doesnt want those guy as "main" bf cuz she knows shell be hurt and they wont help her much at all. shes 22 and she has had tons of them.

shes not looking for sex only, shes 22 and she wants a stable BF (yes some girls want that)

anyways wtf should i have answered when she asked why i have never had a gf?

basicelly the girl probably thought i was decent looking, funny nice inteligent etc, and wondered why the fuck i never had one lol

I don't think you should think you know her intentions and desires after one crappy evening.

well she clearly said what they were....

if she only wanted sex
#1 why is she going for me !??!?
#2 why would she claim the opposite...??

anyways im going to get my cell back to working

ill send her a text message like
"hey i cant call you... send me a message when your back"
and stop calling for a while after that.

On October 05 2008 10:49 Floofy wrote: well she clearly said what they were.... if she only wanted sex #1 why is she going for me !??!? #2 why would she claim the opposite...??

thoughts running thru a confused virgins head...

why would she claim to be the opposite of wanting sex?

because girls who admit they just want sex are branded sluts. even girls that DO only want sex won't openly say it.