Looks or Game? - Page 248

On November 13 2008 10:30 Rhaegar wrote: Floofy's probably just afraid to have sex for the first time and is rationalizing hard. I know I did the same thing... Just go have sex with some hookers to relieve the anxiety and then start playing it aggressive with the girls. Most of them won't ever initiate sex or even kissing, so you have to be aggressive from the start - don't play it like you want to be just friends. From the start make it known that you want to fuck her brains out and you're barely restraining yourself. Playing passive is better suited for poker and for girls.. If you don't do that, you gotta wait for the rare girl that will initiate sex for you, which is a long shot.

you fail..

this has been said atleast 100 times now. a fucking hooker

On November 13 2008 16:35 Baal wrote: just look at the guy is clearly absolutely socially retarded

This is so blunt, it's almost funny.

On November 13 2008 11:43 Yugless wrote: i would would i?

my head hurts

On November 13 2008 12:11 Yugless wrote: anyway, we're talking about two different things. you're talking about 'getting ass', i'm talking about making a connection and having an actual relationship.

"anyway, FAIL"

i just meet second girl

was kinda fun but i dunno
she left after only 3 hours at 21:00 cuz "she has school tomorow"
and i felt she wasnt interested in more than friendship

On November 13 2008 21:29 Floofy wrote: she left after only 3 hours

3 hours is a long time for a date

On November 13 2008 21:29 Floofy wrote: i just meet second girl was kinda fun but i dunno she left after only 3 hours at 21:00 cuz "she has school tomorow" and i felt she wasnt interested in more than friendship

3 hours where?

On November 13 2008 21:29 Floofy wrote: i just meet second girl was kinda fun but i dunno she left after only 3 hours at 21:00 cuz "she has school tomorow" and i felt she wasnt interested in more than friendship

but it was no fun at all coz u didn't get your cock sucked? life is so unfair
/sarcasm

over/under on # of days before floofy gets laid?

You know, Floofy... some girls just don't feel comfortable putting out after knowing you for all of three hours.

I mean, 3 hours isn't a short first date. If she didn't like you she could be in and out of there within 5 minutes.

What made you think she just wanted to be friends?

When your with these girls/ before you meet them what do you do?

I mean, generally when you take a girl out there shouldn't be much confusion about weather your going to meet a new friend or going on a date.

You don't need to be overtly sexual right a way or act like a prick. (You can, it can work, but you don't need to) but you DO need to be clear about your intent. This doesn't mean saying I'm not looking for just a friend, but in your if your failing at getting the point across maybe it should.

I don't know man, your putting in a lot of time and you SHOULD be getting better results.

Contrary to what you say you are not bad looking at all.

My guess is you need to be more agressive. Not in a throwing shoes or fighting other guys way. (All that BS about being alpha is BS. Guys who are leaders don't feel the need to throw other guys shoes or prove it) but with the girl. My advice to you is this. Next time your with a girl think about what you'ld like to do and just do it. (I don't mean just fuck her obviously, but if you want to kiss her then do. if you want to touch her do)

There really is no risk. Just take a shot.

On November 13 2008 22:51 Python817 wrote: Show nested quote + On November 13 2008 21:29 Floofy wrote: i just meet second girl was kinda fun but i dunno she left after only 3 hours at 21:00 cuz "she has school tomorow" and i felt she wasnt interested in more than friendship 3 hours where?

well i mean it was a funny date lot of joking, she smiled a lot, looked at me in the eyes a lot. after the first restaurant she let me in her car to search for tim hortons and we went there eat a donut.

so anyways i talked to her and chat went something like this
floof: hey re
girl: re
girl: but i gotta sleep
floof: ouch took you a long time to come back home
floof: joke
floof: geez already bed?
floof: yea ok i guess u didnt leave me IRL to talk to me on msn that would be silly
floof: good night
girl: obv i watched OD (some retarded french show)
girl: good night
floof: Btw dont worry i was kidding about the lights your very cute
girl: haha
girl: thanks
girl: you too
girl:
floof: oh yea?
girl: Yes... Good night
floof: Bye
girl: bye

but i dunno my feeling IRL was that shes not that interested.

On November 13 2008 23:08 Floofy wrote: Show nested quote + On November 13 2008 22:51 Python817 wrote:   On November 13 2008 21:29 Floofy wrote: i just meet second girl was kinda fun but i dunno she left after only 3 hours at 21:00 cuz "she has school tomorow" and i felt she wasnt interested in more than friendship 3 hours where? floof: hey re girl: re girl: but i gotta sleep floof: you should get to bed! Btw dont worry i was kidding about the lights your very cute girl: haha girl: thanks girl: you too girl: floof: Thanks, well I'll let you go. girl: bye

fixed

the while "light" thing
if you guys assisted to this scene you would tilt like mother fuckers
it was hilarious

i said something like
floof: geez i dont like tim hortons
girl: why?
floof: the lights made u look better in other restaurant
girl: wtf this is mean
floof: well u know u were at the top in other restaurant and now ur a little below it
girl: wtf this is mean
floof: well no im saying ur cute come on



that part was fucking pathetic hahahhaha

Floofy, keep putting in the effort you are and 5 years from now you'll be a master.

On November 13 2008 23:14 Floofy wrote: the while "light" thing if you guys assisted to this scene you would tilt like mother fuckers it was hilarious i said something like floof: geez i dont like tim hortons girl: why? floof: the lights made u look better in other restaurant girl: wtf this is mean floof: well u know u were at the top in other restaurant and now ur a little below it girl: wtf this is mean floof: well no im saying ur cute come on that part was fucking pathetic hahahhaha

Actually it's not all that bad... a backhanded compliment is actually a good way to lower her value and raise your own. If you don't understand that... You out-aplha'd her if you will ;D

[there are a lot of things negs are good for, one of the things I think most important is the fact that it builds rapport, what you're basically telling her is that she isn't all hot shit. Which is good. Again, raising your value and taking hers away.

yes but i think i reacted bad after she said it was kind of mean
i basicelly backed saying shes cute

On November 13 2008 23:28 Floofy wrote: yes but i think i reacted bad after she said it was kind of mean i basicelly backed saying shes cute

that'd be a perfect time to toss in a hug. [shouldn't be a long hug either... just a quick one]

her - "thats mean"
you - "ahhh you know you're cute" + toss in a quick and non-awkward hug. It could even be a pat on the back if you're not in a good position to hug her.

However you want to be careful that you are actually giving backhanded compliments and are not just being rude to her. But it should be a very 'playful' act, much like banter between siblings "Hey turd breath" random playful shit like that isn't going to crush someone and make them want to slap you, however if you say it in a playful mood you'll probably get a playful 'shutuppp' or 'hey...' or she may even shoot you right back with something. Just run with it.

I think its time for a Pic

On November 13 2008 23:02 Narious wrote: Next time your with a girl think about what you'ld like to do and just do it. (I don't mean just fuck her obviously, but if you want to kiss her then do. if you want to touch her do There really is no risk. Just take a shot.

LOL I don't think we want to tell floofy to do whatever he wants, I can't even guess the weird shit he thinks about doing, especially to 'these girls' who have pushed him away all these years

On November 13 2008 23:02 Narious wrote: My guess is you need to be more agressive. Not in a throwing shoes or fighting other guys way. (All that BS about being alpha is BS. Guys who are leaders don't feel the need to throw other guys shoes or prove it) but with the girl. My advice to you is this. Next time your with a girl think about what you'ld like to do and just do it. (I don't mean just fuck her obviously, but if you want to kiss her then do. if you want to touch her do)

Saying being alpha is BS is BS imo, but tieing up shoelaces and throwing their socks in the floor shouldn't be confused to being alpha. Guys who are leaders are the alpha and they don't act this way yo. Doing that shit will only get him punched in the face (if not by the target, hopefully by someone else).

And yea, I don't think it's a good idea to tell floofy to do what he wants to do - we've seen how that works out. Then again, telling him anything at all will be completely ignored anyway, so it doesn't really matter i guess. Just don't want to reinforce is upraising psychosis.

There really is no risk. Just take a shot.

If this advice would go through to him, this thread would've been over in less than 20 pages.