Looks or Game? - Page 73

On April 01 2008 21:37 milkman wrote: [QUOTE]On April 01 2008 21:07 Floofy wrote: [QUOTE]On April 01 2008 17:46 milkman wrote: So start at what ever kinda lvl u r.. and work ur way up from there... .

im like level 1
but level 1 girls are totally unnattractive

i want at least a girl whos half decent looking. at least 70% of girls meet my criterias on look part...

well im the same way u r, im not the most attractive of the bunch, im not especailly tall, which all girls like, and im a pale irish kid.. so im no 9, but ive always dated/hooked up with 8/9s, because of mainly flashing shiney shit infront of them, and just the "game" that ive built up over the years... but if u feel that ur a 1 but 70% of the girls u see fit the part, ur not in bad shape at all.. if u need to get a few numbers higher then ur self, use ur BR and ur money and availability to ur advantage..

to clarify i dont think im a 1 in looks. i think im a 4 but ill reach 5-6 in maybe 3 months
the problem is my "game" which sucks cuz im shy n akward

ill so all of the following in the next months
#1 make my teeths white with some 300$ treatment
#2 get rid of glasses
#3 keep work out obv
#4 get rid of acnee
#5 get better haircut

i cant do anything else i think

On April 01 2008 21:09 milkman wrote: OHHH how creative pulling up a year old pic of me from vegas for another joke.. SOOOO original.. omg where did u think of that from!!!!... i could just as easily pull up ur pic and write douchebag under it and do the same thing.. only diff.. i was blackout drunk and u just live like that..

buuuuuurnn... oh wait... not.

that was the most pathetic overreaction ever, that bikini was sure sandy... now wash the sand off your vagina and learn how to take a joke.

why "flex" your bankroll as milkman said to get shallow whores when u can get much better girls for free o_oa ?

Heres what hapened tonight at the bar. i didnt bring my glasses and has nice hair n clothes

i drank like 4 beers and then danced a little.

one girl (about a 5) danced with me after some eye contact. she asked me a drink and i bought her a bunch of them
she was nice n smiling n stuff, toiuched me a lot

at around 3 am we were tired so...
i brang her in my car. she was so drunk she wanted to fuck. we went to her house. we did a lot of kissing and after 30 min we did go at it

thx lp for all the help


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I hate this idea of there being 2 types of girls, a "good girl" and a "materialistic girl" let's just say for now.

First off, there are girls whose dominant personality is to be materialistic. They want money, social status, to be treated to certain things et cetera... ok I agree.

There are "good girls" who want to grow with you and have a relationship which personally raises the quality of life of both parters (in a non image oriented or materialistic way)

But both girls have companionship type needs and both girls have materialistic needs. If someone really didn't care about how she appeared or what her boyfriend looked like (in terms of how he carries himself, fashion, hygiene whatever) then that could be saying something is wrong with her. Also, in the long run, girls AND GUYS have materialistic needs and want their potential mate to be able to be a provider at least if necessary. Being able to be a provider is a sign of maturity, ability, ambition and a healthy drive to "get ahead in the world" or some crap like that....

Obviously in many girls it's obvious they REALLY lean one way or the other BUT!!! there's a HUGE spectrum and girls fall anywhere on it. Those are just two variables and they're are many other variables too. (side note though, you can't buy the love of a materialistic girl, you can buy her company which will disqualify you from her love and most likely regular sex bc of a lack of attraction, I spoke earlier why i feel this way -- hookers fall in love with their pimps, not their tricks) ppl like Al Pachino in Scarface are in sexless marriages. (well both couples may be regularly having sex but not likely with each other unless there is a clear transaction/trade off. This I think is the reason why many guys say sex stops after getting married)

But, like I said there are many types of women.... Low Self Esteem / Hight Self Esteem
Low sex drive / High sex drive (remember there are tons of sexless relationships and marriages)
drama queen/non drama
emotionally dependent / independent
ambition
values

All there qualities are not simply either "YES" or "NO" but lay on a spectrum. In fact, with the possible exception of values, you wouldn't want a woman who is unnaturally extreme at any side of any of those variables. Values are good, an extreme may be if she forces those values externally but I don't know if that would count as part of 'values'. Too much ambition is arguably bad but debatable. Too few values, ambition, emotionally dependency, drama (meaning avoidance and problems with opening up), sex drive, self esteem, materialistic needs... and too MUCH off all those things can be bad or be symptoms of problems


This is not definitive or anything, but it's pretty obvious. You can't simply put people into 2 categories like that although there are indeed some extremes

a virtually endless list of qualities is probably possible but you get the point

donalds very right on this.. i guess i was just trying to lay it out in a simple way.. what i basically do with a girl is auto judge them, figure out what part of the spectrum they belong to and play off it in that way. For instance if i see a girl with a 50$ shirt, 70$ jeans a crazy expensive cell phone and shit like that, i go for the money approach.. if i see a girl that doesnt wear all that retardedly expensive shit and actually cares about people and how they act and what not, i just turn on the funny side of things and do alot more talking.

On April 01 2008 23:22 milkman wrote: donalds very right on this.. i guess i was just trying to lay it out in a simple way.. what i basically do with a girl is auto judge them, figure out what part of the spectrum they belong to and play off it in that way. For instance if i see a girl with a 50$ shirt, 70$ jeans a crazy expensive cell phone and shit like that, i go for the money approach.. if i see a girl that doesnt wear all that retardedly expensive shit and actually cares about people and how they act and what not, i just turn on the funny side of things and do alot more talking.

but wait what if the girl with expensive shit is looking for a funny guy and the girl with simple clothing is looking for a guy with some dough to buy her shit?

also I know a few girls (not many ;( ) who wear this expensive shit bc they are uber rich and their parents buy it for them and such... ofc usually those type of parents are concerned that they want their daughter to look rich and they take after their parents but not always

ok so i'm only thinking of one particular girl but i don't know a ton of uber rich girls anyhow or ppl that wear 5K watches and shit

On April 01 2008 22:23 Floofy wrote: to clarify i dont think im a 1 in looks.

dude, no one thinks theyre a 1 lol

soon youll meet some heinous looking chick who will think shes waaaay too hot for you and youll be like "bitch are you kidding i actually lowered my standards to aim for you because you looked easy and look like youd let me stick it up your poop hole"

i myself, am like a chubby patrik antonius - sort of like all the looks and charm of patrik - crossed with a loveable puppy - and the accent of JAMES BOND.

and im a professional microstakes player AND executive outbound telemarketing call centre operator.

some of us are just blessed....

NZ is an auto negative though.

Floofy - You mentioned getting a laser operation for your eyes. I've had it and everything went perfect, so if you want to know anything about it...

byrnesam... shop

"It's Goofy Time!"
with obv "It's Floofy Time!" "NO DAD NO!"
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On April 02 2008 05:28 Oly wrote: Floofy - You mentioned getting a laser operation for your eyes. I've had it and everything went perfect, so if you want to know anything about it...

no you misunderstood

his eyes shoot lasers

like cyclops from x-men.

lol

On April 02 2008 05:28 Oly wrote: Floofy - You mentioned getting a laser operation for your eyes. I've had it and everything went perfect, so if you want to know anything about it...

sure i want to know more about it

i heard the side effects could produce a muscle mass loss, so if I were you I would hurry up before u get any