Looks or Game? - Page 83

On April 13 2008 17:01 Baal wrote: Am i the only one extremely annoyed by Steal City's advice which you can easily tell comes from date books?

btw, wtf? Are u trying to get me back bc of ur pathetic post on that site about how ur a badass racecar driver and face death every day?

First off, yes i do a lot of reading on the subject and even some shitty date books (although I've never read a date book, idk what they are to be honest) would probably have better advice than more of the stuff in this thread and more credibility esp then a single personal opinion

what I'm determining this type of girl to be has a ton to do with her family history

I'm guessing she has a poor relationship with her dominant parents (usually the father)
has had a bad relationship where a guy she trusted cheated on her
has low self esteem in context of relationships
says things like, i don't deserve u et cetera
is a huge drama queen
responds with drama after u treat her well
responds well and submissively to poor/dismissive or indifferent treatment of her
will likely go out of her way to try to make u jealous
will need constant reassurance u love her et cetera
will be very emotionally dependent on u
will likely cheat on u if the relationship goes on long enough
despite the intense drama will be a great girl most of the time
will pretend to break up with you to see how u react and/or to gain power in the relationship


there are some girls that clearly fit pretty nicely into that box bc it can be such a dominant personality. With Freudian psychology, it's pretty easy to spot them.

On April 13 2008 13:25 Ket wrote: watch and learn boys, this is GAME http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1805469

qft

/thread

nothing more to see here folks, move along

http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1798451

On April 13 2008 17:41 Steal City wrote: http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1798451

politics are funny.

LOL@MENTOS

Not getting back lol.. ur freudian analysis fails, i just find your advices very annoying, they seem transcripts of lame dating books.

On April 13 2008 19:34 Baal wrote: Not getting back lol.. ur freudian analysis fails, i just find your advices very annoying, they seem transcripts of lame dating books.

Wow you actually read more than one post from him?

On April 13 2008 13:25 Ket wrote: watch and learn boys, this is GAME http://www.collegehumor.com/video:1805469

Fucking A+ material. gg.

On April 13 2008 19:34 Baal wrote: Not getting back lol.. ur freudian analysis fails, i just find your advices very annoying, they seem transcripts of lame dating books.

how does it fail? It's not mine btw it's something believed by multiple communities. I've discussed such types of girls (guys too) with many people who have had exact experiences. I've also talked to a professional psychologist about this and it's very real.

again, to have clinical borderline would be a very extreme scenario of it but here's a description of it
http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/public...borderline-personality-disorder.shtml

if u ask any psychologist that works with extreme cases about the validity of borderline they will tell u it's presence is undeniable.

You should chat with floofy about some of the weird stuff this girl has since done. I highly doubt she's clinically borderline lol, but she definitely likely has a mild case of the above phenomenon.

And btw, i know one liners are easier to respond and corroborate with... I mean i know u guys are just being silly with the thread but i'm actually trying to help floofy bc he could really be in for an emotional storm if he actually gets anywhere with that girl. If u want to base ur knowledge off one liners u can go ahead but don't attack valid points just because they are foreign to you.

If you would like to dispute the validity of these claims then come back with some real arguments and maybe we can have a discussion and go somewhere.

If anyone has had a relationship with a girl who exhibits these traits or say a girl who cuts herself or something, plz feel free to chime in

hmmm sean just made me realise something....

so anyways, ive read on seduction and they advised NOT TO break eye contacts with hot girls.
so anyways since i read that ive been practicing this
today, this one very hot chick with sick eyes held an eye contact with me for like 5 seconds. no smile on either sides. i felt a weird feeling inside and i didnt know what it was. its like very intense

sean told me its being "intimidated". i remembered i once starred at some dude in live poker and i had the same feeling

btw its also a girl i messaged on my dating site and she didnt reply back...

jessus thats so bad

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-rekrul

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/29516

lol i can't believe i found this gold nugget. These types of girls are very common and well known even The Onion made a joke article about them. They emotionally drain you which is why I really want to warn floofy. Baal, ask some friends if they've been in a relationship like this? U'll see how amazingly accurate everything lines up

Gotta love The Onion.

On April 14 2008 14:07 Floofy wrote: hmmm sean just made me realise something.... so anyways, ive read on seduction and they advised NOT TO break eye contacts with hot girls. so anyways since i read that ive been practicing this today, this one very hot chick with sick eyes held an eye contact with me for like 5 seconds. no smile on either sides. i felt a weird feeling inside and i didnt know what it was. its like very intense sean told me its being "intimidated". i remembered i once starred at some dude in live poker and i had the same feeling btw its also a girl i messaged on my dating site and she didnt reply back... jessus thats so bad

i guess this is good for just working on your ability to look at people in the eyes... but you're no where near at the level where you can just go walk around and pick up random chicks off the street. in fact i doubt any of us are. work on getting to know a lot of people and i think a girl will come naturally.

by 'look her in the eyes' they don't mean stare her down for 5 seconds without saying anything, cuz that's a li'l creepy

On April 14 2008 16:08 Steal City wrote: http://www.theonion.com/content/node/29516 lol i can't believe i found this gold nugget. These types of girls are very common and well known even The Onion made a joke article about them. They emotionally drain you which is why I really want to warn floofy. Baal, ask some friends if they've been in a relationship like this? U'll see how amazingly accurate everything lines up

that is "the onion" and its fake obv.

and if floofy gets in a emotional storm we can always have another 80 page thread about it

On April 14 2008 20:41 Yugless wrote: by 'look her in the eyes' they don't mean stare her down for 5 seconds without saying anything, cuz that's a li'l creepy

no staring her down is exactly what they mean. dominate that bitch!

On April 14 2008 20:43 Baal wrote: Show nested quote + On April 14 2008 16:08 Steal City wrote: http://www.theonion.com/content/node/29516 lol i can't believe i found this gold nugget. These types of girls are very common and well known even The Onion made a joke article about them. They emotionally drain you which is why I really want to warn floofy. Baal, ask some friends if they've been in a relationship like this? U'll see how amazingly accurate everything lines up that is "the onion" and its fake obv. and if floofy gets in a emotional storm we can always have another 80 page thread about it

what exactly are u doubting? The prevalence of this type of girl? Or that floofy's girl gave off that vibe (floofy can elaborate on some of the other stuff she's done)
either way, it's a losing battle, if u get in a relationship with a girl like this, or start talking to people about relationships u will see the prevalence. Once u find girls like this u will see how so many of their traits and symptoms line up. Find a girl with a high sex drive and low self esteem within the context of the relationship and will will definitely have most of these traits/symptoms
-poor relationship with father (or dominant family member)
usually issues of abandonment or abuse
abuse from outside the family could also substitute
-very emotional
-will occasionally say dramatic things lightly like, "I think i'm pregnant", "I think we should break up" blah blah
-obsessively jealous (calls bf up way too often)
-responds coldly to being treated well and when show the partner is emotionally attached and thus she has the power in the relationship
-responds positively to dismissive treatment
-engages in and is sexually turned on by risky behavior

If u know any prostitutes strippers, the majority of them will fall into this category and often extremely exhibit these qualities. Girls that like hella dominatrix style sex are very extreme in this regard and are generally these type of girls. Their brains are hardwired to desire sex & pain simultaneously. They get turned on by pain usually stemming from repeated childhood sexual abuse. In fact, I haven't heard of a girl who had repeated childhood abuse who either didn't exhibit this behavior or had a very low sex drive and actually disliked sex.

You can't find much of this explained online but if u google things like "dominatrix"+"child abuse" you'll see a pattern
http://www.google.co.th/search?q=domi...e:en-US:official&client=firefox-a

anyway, that's a pretty extreme case, like i said, most cases are mild but still can be ravaging to the man's emotional well being, even his physical health. I vividly remember my health turning sour when I didn't know how to deal with this type of girl. I'm just trying to warm floofy of something I know is true.

Yeah. I know alot of girls like that actually.

many times a guy will say, my last girl friend always did X

I'll be like:
did she have a bad relationship with her father? did she X did she Y....
they end up saying yes to 19 out of 20 questions and are like
WTF do u know my gf personally?

... this has happened to me MANY times