Looks or Game? - Page 89

I wonder if he noticed while skimming the thread that every single major derailment in this thread has revolved around him endlessly arguing with somebody simply because he thinks he's right on topics where no finality is possible since it's all based on perception.

Food for thought.

Hi, I hope that this post isn't too out of line for one's first post in such a long-lived community, but it's such a great thread that it urges one to post after lurking for a long while

I'm not exactly informed about the history of you guys, or why you're ganging up to put Steal City down, but having read the whole thread I figure he's one of the few who are honestly trying to help Floofy out with well articulated replies.

For some reason (because of your history?) you've dedicated your existance in this thread to put other people down, Freak. You've put other people's ideas down, you've called people who you don't agree with asinine, daft, stupid, idiot, etc. on multiple occasions, and still you try to convince yourself (or the rest?) that it's somehow Steal City's fault. There's a difference between your argumentation styles. The other tries to articulate his argument on the subject and bases it on objective analysis, while the other does his best to put the other's ideas down, concentrating the arguments more on the poster than the subject of the argument itself. And all this while complaining that Steal City 'keeps on posting' when you attack him and his ideas . Steal even has less posts in this thread than You, and _a lot_ of more contributing material.

Honestly, having quickly re-read some of your hundred replies to the thread I've yet to find a single post that really contributes. The contributing beef in your first post: "To answer the question, I dunno..probably a lot of both? I know one thing though, you have to stop asking so many stupid questions all the damn time or you won't land anybody." pretty much sums the attitude you're posting with.

I'm not sure if this intentional, but that's how it comes out to someone who's merely reading the forums. I understand that for most the thread is about shitting on Floofy, and thus some of your answers and ideas really hit the spot, but as goes for thread derailing ... well, you should really look at the mirror for that one -- you're once again trying to reflect your own personality into the thread. Just skim through your own contributions. I'm sure everyone already knows that you're a raver, you don't care, you are an intellectual, has tried all the drugs, seen liquid dancing at its finest in raves, etc. But it doesn't really help Floofy, or the thread here. Although I'm sure he'd be able to score in no time in your environment while being high on mdma

As goes for the personality types that Steal City is talking about. I've had a long relationship with one with relatively low self esteem and high sex drive, and a lot of the stuff Steal City says really is true, and it's fun to see someone having same kinds of thoughts on the subject. No need to put him down on that, he actually has a point in what he's saying. I figure you know it too, but because of some history between you guys you're inclined to attack him on whatever.

end of rant.

Now, Floofy if you want to find an interesting girl, you've got to be interesting yourself. If you're in a hurry just to get laid, you'll do that easily with the current looks -- just go clubbing often enough, you'll get someone to tag along sooner or later. It's not like you have to talk that much while hitting on a girl in a noisy nightclub. Once that happens, your confidence will definitely get a boost that makes it more frequent. And once your confidence gets higher, you'll be able to convey your thoughts in a more fluent, less robotic fashion and actually hit on an interesting girl. Good luck, floofy

Cheers. Btw, thanks for creating a great poker community for everyone to enjoy

On April 16 2008 23:16 Baal wrote: This thread quality is dropping big time.... This thread needs feedback from floofy to say how his weekends are going with pictures, otherwise its doomed to be fights between StealCity and X.

ill give feedback once something happens, which isnt the case right now
im slowly looking better so once i start clubbing more intensively somethings bound to happen i guess

lol
kusimuumi = steal city?

ggplz = perv?

On April 17 2008 10:05 ggplz wrote: lol kusimuumi = steal city?

100% Positive lol.
Kusimuumi -> BAN! xD

How laughable.

I really have no desire to rip the inconsistencies and judgments in that apart. Think what you will. I've obviously contributed nothing, ever, to this thread or this forum. I only attack people's thoughts and opinions without actually giving any of my own, apparently. And I can only pick up girls who are high on drugs.

Excuse me if I find it peculiar that the grand total number of posts of the two people that have come to defend Steal City is 16.

I can't believe somebody actually tried suggesting that I don't articulate my thoughts or give my own opinions and analysis of things.

Am I not one of the most opinionated people on this forum? o.O

On April 17 2008 10:25 Yugless wrote: ggplz = perv?

yeah, i wear a cape too

On April 17 2008 10:25 Yugless wrote: ggplz = perv?

all guys r pervs
except talentedtom

all pervs should wear capes.

Pedophiles should get like battle suits. With bells, whistlers, candy guns, a teddy bear dispenser and a lube cannon.

On April 17 2008 11:23 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: I can't believe somebody actually tried suggesting that I don't articulate my thoughts or give my own opinions and analysis of things. Am I not one of the most opinionated people on this forum? o.O

Opinions are like assholes,everybodys got one.

But only some are attached to a sweet, sweet ass.

On April 17 2008 11:47 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: all pervs should wear capes. Pedophiles should get like battle suits. With bells, whistlers, candy guns, a teddy bear dispenser and a lube cannon.

totally

so ive been gone for a week and like 10 pages went by.. but i duno i saw a few things..

eye contact, sounds good and all, but can very VERY easily fail and make u just look creepy... when your meeting a girl for the first time, especially if its over the internet or something, you dont wanna look creapy. its good to make eye contact just dont over do it. another thing i saw on the office.. if your really close it sux cuz u will either focus on one eye or the other, so just look at the middle of their forehead and ur eyes wont be shooting back and forth.
Later on when your less nervous and have more confidence and skills u can work with eye contact, head gestures, winks, body distance, ect.

fuck now i forgot the other things.. one sec

baal said something about being confident and u said cocky.. being confident can get u a long way with most girls, but after u find out that being confident works so well.. it naturally just leads to cocky, and u end up like me... can be really hard to turn off.

u mentioned u asking her what kinda guy she likes, and her asking what kinda girl u like... first off dont ask her a question that u cant answer really good for ur self.. alot of times in first time meetings and stuff if u ask something they will fire it back at ya... but more importantly about this subject is when you ask something like that, its letting her know that you care, or you might be willing to change before you meet her. thats not good, girls want what they cant have... let me repeat GIRLS WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE!!!! girls do not want what they can have or even more so, someone that will just try and bend over backwards...

k after that anyway she said she wanted a guy that was surprising.. what she meant was spontaneous, every fuckin girl in the world wants a guy thats spontaneous, and trustworthy... so even tho im pretty fuckin sure u have never cheated on anyone.. if u have, dont mention it.. i always fuckin let that one slip and have to follow it up with a shit eating grin and a "no really, im a nice guy".... anyway spontaneous and trustworthy. being spontaneous just gets easier and easier when you have alot of money.. ballin it up on a date it not about buying HER anything, its about using your money to make both of you have fun.. and thats where the difference between the cool guys that spend alot of money on a date.. and the douchebags that just make her feel like shit,,, its not just offering to buy her everything, its about surprising her and making you both equally have fun.

other then that.. your clothes look decent.. maybe try some t-shirts with a hoodie or a nice jacket over it... not just all polo style shirts, but all in all, its not bad.. the watch.. needs to go... anything else, srsly..or just dont wear one.. but if u like having one on... go get something thats not flashy, but not square with a leather band.. girls dont want guys with watch that reminds them of their dad. So go grab a fossil or something, i duno anything cheap, NOT DIGITAL.. or just dont wear one.. watches are almost always neutral EV, girls wont ever be like "oh i wish he had a ballin watch" but alot of girls hate watches guys have.. so not wearing one is OK... then.. get ur hair fixed... go to somewhere that charges AT LEAST 20$... hair is fucking important, girls like it.. dont fuckit up.. and if u dont know what to do.. cuz obv u dont.. just get a nice looking girl at the salon and explain to her whats up.. tell her ur fucked cuz ur not fucked and that she is ur last hope in the hair department.. and im sure shes gonna help u out.

the last thing to remember.. is be your self.. you NEVER know what thing you might say or bring up that will be something she will never forget about you, and that one thing you say might be the thing that makes her want to see you again.

also post pics of this girl if u can.

oh and if your gonna come to vegas for wsop or anything like that i can help give u some pointers.

i talked to a new girl. it seems to go well this time

we talked some and she was nice. she likes guitar hero n DDR. she likes dancing. she got no job and is studying to be an hair cutter (I NEED THAT LOL). shes 21 comes out of a relatioship

anyways she seems to like me, i showed her my pic and it went like
wow you look like a "bole". idk how to traduct this in english but it means someone good at school
then she adds i look serious
i dont say shit and i feel pissed
then she adds "your cute"
i say "thats better :D"

then she sends pics i say shes cute too. (shes not a model but shes alright)

then she ask me my qualities n bad qualities. so i tell her truth and she kinda laugh at me lol. then i ask her for hers and she "gtg".

i think its going ok

awesome, time to tell her "look at my hair ffs... i need desperate help on that department!", if she wans to cut your hair then ur set to a good start and u also save $20 lol.

On April 17 2008 11:50 Cro)Deadman wrote: Show nested quote + On April 17 2008 11:23 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: I can't believe somebody actually tried suggesting that I don't articulate my thoughts or give my own opinions and analysis of things. Am I not one of the most opinionated people on this forum? o.O Opinions are like assholes,everybodys got one.

and they all stink

On April 17 2008 14:09 Floofy wrote: then she ask me my qualities n bad qualities. so i tell her truth and she kinda laugh at me lol. then i ask her for hers and she "gtg". i think its going ok

OMG what bad qualities did you say?
STOP BEING HONEST YOU PLAY POKER FFS

I hope u didn't give her a link