Looks or Game? - Page 92

agreed, get an escort it will help you loosen up and be more confortable in general... plus u will feel like king of the world for next couple of days

On April 18 2008 08:19 Loco wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2008 07:36 Baal wrote:   On April 18 2008 06:13 Loco wrote: Well, first and foremost his problem is that he is too honest. And since he's awkward and needy, being honest isn't the best thing he can do. He needs to get rid of his honesty in spot where girls can perceive weakness. There is nothing wrong with honesty as long as u play it good i mean u dont have to talk about those issues unless u drag the conversation there. Its not like u have to be like: floofy: "Hi im floofy" Girl: "oh hi, tee hee!" Floofy: "im akward and needy" Girl :" mmmm...." Foofy " 1010000110101101" I have no idea wtf you are talking about Baal. It seems quite obvious to me that his problem is honesty. He's always way too honest with girls, gives out his flaws and doesn't act confident at all. There's nothing wrong with being honest with a girl... but in floofy's case being honest isn't the best way to meet girls. Most of them won't be interested in him. He doesn't have to blatantly state "i'm awkward and needy" he just shows it with what he answers to them when they ask questions...

I think part of the problem is that honesty is kind of a form of confidence, so its confusing to tell someone to "be confident and be themselves, but for god's sake don't be honest!!!"

anyways floofdog, just think about it objectively - honesty is fine, being honest is never bad... but you want to show these girls a good time, charm them a little, make them feel good about themselves, laugh and have fun. If you tell a girl things you don't like about yourself shes going to feel bad for you and either a) want to help you out but not date u, or b) just want to get out of the situation because she barely knows you and has no emotional investment.

When it comes down to it the honest opinions you have of yourself maybe arent so good, and thats tough to get around. But, if you strive to be the person you want to be then you'll only have good things to say about yourself and honestly won't be a problem anymore.

That being said, honest opinions of yourself are pretty personal in nature. You're in no way obliged to answer her question directly.

On April 18 2008 01:15 RiKD wrote: Show nested quote + On April 17 2008 21:41 Floofy wrote: theres another new girl (lol) shes named marie-phillipe (i know wtf, ill call her marie) shes extremly nice, writes perfectly, etc. she looks like she came out of a church. i like her looks. shes not a 10 or anything but shes my type. we had a funny chat its like she begged for me to ask her on a date. ill wait for tomorow. was something like this girl: so what r u doing this weekend me: dunno im probably going to go to my cousin's party on saturday. u? girl: nothing girl: i really should go to the movies me: with who r u going? girl: i dunno... and right before that, we had a chat that looked like this: me: any guys in sight? girl: no none. u? me: yes one right now girl: nice for u me: she has a very nice smile (i had a made a comment about how i liked her smile) girl: wait, mine??? me: silence so hmmm im probably gonna meet one of those 2 and if it dont work ill meet the other. if both fails, wtf failure ffs, ill brandi hawkwaker myself yeah i agree w/ fayth it should of gone something like this... girl: so what r u doing this weekend me: going to lavine's to get some pants for mah nukka's... i'm gonna steal em i ain't have no money... WHAT'S THAT SMELL LIKE? girl: nothing girl: i really should go to the movies me: WHATEVER BITCH GET ME A CHICKEN SANDWHICH AND SOME WAFFLE FRIES... maybe a coke to drink or something. FOR FREE! girl: ... and right before that, we had a chat that looked like this: me: BITCH YOU AIN'T NO NERD! I COULDA SWORN YOU WERE! girl: i like to go shopping me: BITCH! NOT ON THIS DATE... B/C I AIN'T GOT NO MONEY. AND YOU GONE GIVE ME THE MONEY YOU GOT! girl: ... *steal purse* me: WHO IS THIS NUKKA IN THIS PICTURE! girl: that's tommy, that's my little broth.... me: BITCH, YOU BETTER NO HAVE NO LITTLE BROTHER. I AIN'T TRYING TO DEAL W/ ANY OTHER NUKKAS.

Its takes years to get your game up to this level.

It's funny how you say "she's not a 10" to say she's ugly. Finding girls online is the easiest thing there was - you've groomed yourself for nothing. Altho that's more sort of quantity over quality thingie.

On April 17 2008 18:05 Floofy wrote: that one is 21. i dont do anything below 17 anymore

Also funny that you say "anymore" :D

There are only so many reasons to lie to a girl - it's actually a lot easier to not tell everything right in their face and let them figure it out. Undermining your own game can't be too good. One of the reasons to lie to a girl include not wanting her to know anything about you. That's prolly the only good reason :D

floofy go on a euro back packing trip, alone or with some friends, and go do stuff. i think he needs, like all young people, to grow by doing active things. it's not going to help him be confident if you just tell him to go be confident because it's impossible to change yourself like that in one second. but he can start doing things that will change him gradually, indirectly. you don't tell a kid to get better at soccer by putting him in the game right away, he needs to go work out and do drills first. and floofy! most of all, don't stress! stop posting here! just live life! not getting girls is not a big deal. lots of guys don't get girls, and lots of guys are shy. it's a struggle for everybody, just live life!

p.s. i think you're too open with people. there's a reason why most guys wouldn't admit their weaknesses, it rarely helps and leads to awkwardness and puts you down in a subservient position

On April 18 2008 10:57 Fraser wrote: Show nested quote + On April 18 2008 08:19 Loco wrote:   On April 18 2008 07:36 Baal wrote:   On April 18 2008 06:13 Loco wrote: Well, first and foremost his problem is that he is too honest. And since he's awkward and needy, being honest isn't the best thing he can do. He needs to get rid of his honesty in spot where girls can perceive weakness. There is nothing wrong with honesty as long as u play it good i mean u dont have to talk about those issues unless u drag the conversation there. Its not like u have to be like: floofy: "Hi im floofy" Girl: "oh hi, tee hee!" Floofy: "im akward and needy" Girl :" mmmm...." Foofy " 1010000110101101" I have no idea wtf you are talking about Baal. It seems quite obvious to me that his problem is honesty. He's always way too honest with girls, gives out his flaws and doesn't act confident at all. There's nothing wrong with being honest with a girl... but in floofy's case being honest isn't the best way to meet girls. Most of them won't be interested in him. He doesn't have to blatantly state "i'm awkward and needy" he just shows it with what he answers to them when they ask questions... I think part of the problem is that honesty is kind of a form of confidence, so its confusing to tell someone to "be confident and be themselves, but for god's sake don't be honest!!!" anyways floofdog, just think about it objectively - honesty is fine, being honest is never bad... but you want to show these girls a good time, charm them a little, make them feel good about themselves, laugh and have fun. If you tell a girl things you don't like about yourself shes going to feel bad for you and either a) want to help you out but not date u, or b) just want to get out of the situation because she barely knows you and has no emotional investment. When it comes down to it the honest opinions you have of yourself maybe arent so good, and thats tough to get around. But, if you strive to be the person you want to be then you'll only have good things to say about yourself and honestly won't be a problem anymore. That being said, honest opinions of yourself are pretty personal in nature. You're in no way obliged to answer her question directly.

you pretty much rehashed everything i was saying in that post, just said in a different way.

next time you meet a girl and she asks your name, say "I am THE floofy". if you got sick game you could make it into an interesting conversation XD

the marie phillipe chick will meet me the problem is she looks like sick LSE(she thinks shes ugly... both me n exalted thinks shes cute). and she kinda looks like pessimistic thinking it wont work. shes been hurt in a previous relationship and didnt have many bf.

whatever ill give it a try

On April 19 2008 11:51 Floofy wrote: the marie phillipe chick will meet me the problem is she looks like sick LSE(she thinks shes ugly... both me n exalted thinks shes cute). and she kinda looks like pessimistic thinking it wont work. shes been hurt in a previous relationship and didnt have many bf. whatever ill give it a try

give up on this one

way too advanced for you...

On April 19 2008 17:36 byrnesam wrote: Show nested quote + On April 19 2008 11:51 Floofy wrote: the marie phillipe chick will meet me the problem is she looks like sick LSE(she thinks shes ugly... both me n exalted thinks shes cute). and she kinda looks like pessimistic thinking it wont work. shes been hurt in a previous relationship and didnt have many bf. whatever ill give it a try give up on this one way too advanced for you...

LOL, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Got to gamble

On April 19 2008 17:41 Narious wrote: Show nested quote + On April 19 2008 17:36 byrnesam wrote:   On April 19 2008 11:51 Floofy wrote: the marie phillipe chick will meet me the problem is she looks like sick LSE(she thinks shes ugly... both me n exalted thinks shes cute). and she kinda looks like pessimistic thinking it wont work. shes been hurt in a previous relationship and didnt have many bf. whatever ill give it a try give up on this one way too advanced for you... LOL, NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Got to gamble

yeh i kinda wanna see this one crash and burn i just dont wanna hear Floofy tell the story about how he got bottled round the face by the girls angry ex-boyfriend.

ahhh fuck it go for it Floofy - just watch that Bas Rutten video before you go on the date - KICK TO THE GROIN, KNEE TO THE FACE...

ROFL, baaanggg baaaannng baaannnng baannnnngg

This new chick sounds like she'll probably let you do anything...

On April 18 2008 09:09 Loco wrote: you really need to set up some priorities... you are such in a hurry to get laid while there's so much you have to work on yourself and yet the only thing you seem to care about is how to talk to a girl and charm them and how to look better. This should be secondary stuff that improves what is already at the core(your personallity), not a way to compensate for the lack of one god...

best advice in all these pages imo

wtf is this thread dying? NOOOOOOOO

That's basically what I said just worded differently =

No love T_T

On April 20 2008 14:56 FrEaK[S.sIR] wrote: That's basically what I said just worded differently = No love T_T

here <3

Manipulation is the key ;D Floof~ gow gow act like i taught u to do 8)

Be ALWAYS Honests BUT ''modify'' the reality to your advantage ^^ Stay ''Vague''? 'bout what u say so the girl will be asking herself lots of question bout u :/ keep their mind working all the time.

wtf sennpu thats totally wrong

women love to talk - they dont wanna listen.

let them ramble on about shit and just say "yeh" every now and then whilst you oogle her boobs FrinkX style and scope out other chicks in the vacinity.