LOL at this context:
We have great chemistry and are really hitting it off. She giggles and blushes like a little school girl at my lame jokes. I am like, 99.99% sure this girl is into me.+ she’ll have the house to herself+She says that her boyfriend has a cottage up north and she’ll spend the weekend up there+I mean, I did not think she had a boyfriend the way she was treating me.
Man, trust your instincts, very few girls are aggressive in their game, they are a lot more subtile in their hitting. So if you've picked up a read that she's in to you, lets go with it. You got everything you need...she's want to hang out with you, she think's you're a funny guy and so on. Further, why would she tell you that she's alone in her house...because she want's you to STEP UP and give her a proposal that you two hang out together that weekend ofc. Her boyfriend might be a test or a second-best alternative for her. Obv, from the pov the text gives, she wants you to come over the top and take some initiative, girls like guys who are self-confident. So you should not back-down at this point, instead you should ask her if you should hang out. It doesn't seem to me that she has decided to go to her "BF", she's more like fishing for information, what type of guy are you, are you confident enought to ask her out. She might not want to be the one that take the intiative, esp. not if she really has a bf because then she has acted immoral if shes hitting on you due to her GF-obligations, but if there comes a guy that totally sweeps her of her feet, hey then it's not her fault if she is unfaithful and later dumps her BF and hook up with you instead. A classic one!
I say go for it dude!
But remember:
Watch out so you don't enter the "friend"-zone. This means that you act like someone she only think of as a friend and therefore not gets sexually attracted to...extremely dangerous and very hard to recover from dropping into that zone!
Also, a BF is never an obstacle for real. Feelings change and so does constellations of relationships ;-) I don't know how far it is for her to her BF (if she has a long-distance relationship or w/e) or if she's just feeling lonesome in school, but i say she's definitely attracted to you somehow. You just have to discover in what way and steer it into the direction of your likings. This is doable on almost every girl (expet the boring and dull ones because you won't be interested enought to put in efficient effort to it).
GL dudE
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Btw, what stakes do you play?
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