I'm a wuss - Page 2

ahaha epic tread

the chances she got aids are really small, the chance you get aids while using a rubber is really small. Aka you cannot get aids

or are u even afraid to go out the streets coz a lightning may strike into you?

how about the truth?? tell her about your random irrational fears and put it in that context.

On May 30 2010 15:04 Chewits wrote: Show nested quote + On May 30 2010 14:50 iop wrote: GAMBOL LOL. Correct me if I am wrong, but you can only catch AIDS from sex? So you could just ask about her time in Africa, and if she was "seeing" anyone?

Of course you can catch HIV (you get the virus, not the disease) through other ways (i.e. blood transfusions, contact to contaminated blood etc.)

But honestly, OP is just overly paranoid here. Yes she is probably lacking moral character for sleeping with you, meaning she probably slept with a bunch of africans. But the risk of being contaminated in the first place is pretty low, even if she had unprotected sex with someone who has it.

Conclusion: Go fuck her, use a condom.

Or, you just make sure she get tested, and when she get the results back (take like 3 weeks in Sweden to get the results) you are free to put your thing in her.

And beg that she hasn't changed her mind for 3 weeks - that is a risk worth considering

make some tasteless jokes about Africa that are still funny and probably true.

what the hell man. tell her you value your life, are very health conscious and that you would be much more comfortable having sex with her if you knew she was clean...

if she has a problem with that, kick her the fuck out.

use a rubber or ask her get tested
wtf dude

On May 30 2010 15:37 Night2o1 wrote: alright well I guess if you don't feel liuke its something you can or want to 'get over' or what not, I really wouldn't give her this as the reason (Because its dumb and it'll really come off wrong to her & probably hurt her feelings for no reason). Just tell her you aren't interested in her/she isn't for you/whatever. God please tell her something else because I'm pretty sure the worst option is to tell her that you think she's a nasty slut who goes to africa under the guise of helping poor people but instead went to take it up the ass bareback from every poor, dirty african she can meet. imo at least. I mean, I guess if you want to have a relationship with her you could figure out a way to ask if she had sex in africa, and then you could probably say something about how they have a massive AIDs epidemic and you would like her to get tested before you get intimate.

First part is approximately what I thought too. Can't just tell people you're afraid they have aids. Girls have feelings too, someone told me.

Also I don't want a relationship. I just like having sex with her once in a while.

Also used a rubber and concentrated on staring on her boobs all the time. Worked decently. She said she hadn't even kissed a guy in Africa so I guess that's a good thing.

On May 30 2010 15:04 Chewits wrote: Show nested quote + On May 30 2010 14:50 iop wrote: GAMBOL LOL. Correct me if I am wrong, but you can only catch AIDS from sex? So you could just ask about her time in Africa, and if she was "seeing" anyone?

Not only from sex. When blood to blood contact too. Even with saliva, during kisses, but in salivia there is so little hiv viruses, so its
very unlikely to get it this way. But still, there isn;t needed much blood to get aids. But without any scratch, or open small wound I suppose its impossible.

I would just ask her, and if still uncertain, ask her to make some tests, so I can sleep (with her) calmly.
sry for eng.

dusty, just use a rubber for fuck buddies lol. It's the universal solution to avoid getting all STD's.

For what it worth I woke up 5 min before my wake up time due to a nightmare of unspecified nature.

lol damn

something must be wrong here, i thought you were from sweden not the united states.

5 star blog for sure.

wrap it before u tap it, bro

On May 30 2010 22:19 Baal wrote: something must be wrong here, i thought you were from sweden not the united states.

Cos I'm a Muswell Hillbilly boy
but my heart lies in old West Virginia
Never seen New Orleans, Oklahoma, Tennessee
Still I dream of the Black Hills that I ain't never seen

Hmm pretty easy fold!? Take the pros and cons from not sleeping with her again and weigh them agianst eachother.

Pros.
1. You have already done her (and do not have feelings for her) so if you skip her, you can finally stop being lazy and comfortable with only f*cking her, because its easier than going out and find a new one, and instead do exactly that, go out and start chasing new girls (if not only for the fun of it, so at least to improve in that field, which is never a bad thingy)

2. If you not sleep with her you don't catch aids, at least not from her, which probably is a more bad thing since you expect her to have that, there's no shame in catching a STD with a new stunning girl from a club.

3. There exist airborne viruses such as ebola in Africa which you not either won't to catch.

Cons.
You don't get aids, die at an early age, and miss the oppurtunity to be famous (based on some theory, that I just made up, about the necessity to die young to be famous)

Take her to kickboxing, and then beat the shit out of her, take a blood sample, and she won't want to cuddle or fuck cos you just kicked her ass. And in the meantime you wait for the result, voila!!

You get exercise, execute some weird fantasy and you find out if she's got aids xD