People suck - Page 2

On January 24 2011 10:11 whamm! wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 09:46 def_jammer wrote: hope thats a level because otherwise I cant understand how your smart enough to beat the high stakes. by cheating perhaps?

lol good one

On January 24 2011 09:46 def_jammer wrote: hope thats a level because otherwise I cant understand how your smart enough to beat the high stakes.

Reason why I can beat higher stakes then you is because I'm capable of thinking out the box =) Men are superior then women. Don't let the media fool you. They were our slaves past 20+ centuries let's not forget

On January 24 2011 09:36 AndrewSong wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 08:52 pinbaLL wrote: Cheating is the nut low anyways (if you're supposed to have a serious relationship at least). so its ok to cheat if your not in a serious relationship? maybe I'm on another level. I truly believe that men are superior to women and we can cheat if we wish. open relationship is plain retarded IMO. Any girl that's fine with open relationship is a slut. If your against cheating, and you want to have sex with multiple women, don't be in a relationship period.

Agree on some parts. I think we're (as men) equipped with physical and intellectual tools that place on a far higher level for potential achievement. That said, 95% of dudes out there are too lazy to ever tap into this and are generally happy being the "dumb, cute bf" rather than the strong, masculine leader and so women end up overtaking them professionally and within the relationship as well. Media and popular culture also loves to spread the idea of the woman who has it all together and her dumb bf who fucks up.

I'm a huge practitioner of the open relationship (going on 4 years with my main gf, 2 years with a secondary, and have three other fuckbuddies). The main reason I disagree on the value of an open relationship is that this isn't the Medieval era anymore. You can't own women in today's society. To attempt to do so with rules of monogamy and exclusivity is futile and lowers your overall value in the relationship.

I know several boss dudes who have serious gfs and cheat, but I personally don't think it's the cheating that makes the whole thing work. It all comes down to them having options and being willing to walk away (a power that only comes when you have other pussy available to you). You can be completely honest about your own promiscuity and still own a girl's heart forever. I understand that you might want to maintain an exclusive front so you can try to control your main gf's pussy while fucking other girls to your heart's content, but that's just an illusion IMO - girls enjoy testing out new dick just as much as guys enjoy new pussy and there's no way some relationship contract or monogamy rule is going to stop them if that's what they feel/desire in the moment.

On January 24 2011 10:32 AndrewSong wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 09:46 def_jammer wrote: hope thats a level because otherwise I cant understand how your smart enough to beat the high stakes. Reason why I can beat higher stakes then you is because I'm capable of thinking out the box =) Men are superior then women. Don't let the media fool you. They were our slaves past 20+ centuries let's not forget

Im by no means into women right movements or something but your point of view is pretty dumb and disgusting

LOL
everyone defending women WTF?
step on them so they respect you.
if you cheat to a girl she's obv not the love of your life, untill you find it you can do whatever you want.

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On January 24 2011 05:23 AndrewSong wrote: I've never cheated on my girlfriends and probably never will but I don't see nothing wrong with cheating unless its done to me. Even if I was cheated, I would blame more on my self for dating a slut and not being enough of a boss to let her think cheating me would be fine. I think it's wrong to judge others when they're doing you no harm. It's simply a different approach to living life. My dad has never cheated on my mom and I respect that so I'm approaching life in similar ways so I don't form a bad habit for my future marriage. That said, I truly believe cheating is +ev in life long as you don't get caught. It's pain in the ass to be fully committed to one girl when you're sexy as fuck.

cheating +ev? are you sure you didn't mean -ev?

It's like saying shoving 72o all in pre flop is +EV as long as everybody folds

you can't just put conditions, it is either +EV or -EV, flat out.

hehe
I predict this blog will have a lot more posts

On January 24 2011 10:11 whamm! wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 09:46 def_jammer wrote: hope thats a level because otherwise I cant understand how your smart enough to beat the high stakes. by cheating perhaps?

lol

my feelings on the main issue of other ppl cheating is that you should stay out of it and lock any info away. don't get involved ever. i think the parties involved usually know what's up. if they don't they will. then they either don't care or delude themselves or cheat back or break up or w/e. if i had information though and a friend asked me i wouldn't lie to them. i have never heard of that happening though if you don't ever gossip about it w/ anyone and it's as if you have no info.

this might be a cool thread topic though. even though he worded it like a crazy person douchebag, andrewsong has some good points. i think it's possible a compelling argument could be made for cheating just not by him. especially depending on how one defines cheating.

On January 24 2011 14:11 RiKD wrote: this might be a cool thread topic though. even though he worded it like a crazy person douchebag, andrewsong has some good points. i think it's possible a compelling argument could be made for cheating just not by him. especially depending on how one defines cheating.

Hahaha I lold. Sorry I couldn't deliver. I pulled an all nighter and now I'm grinding turbo event at Borg to fix my sleeping schedule . It's hard to write out a wellput post when I'm typing on my iPhone

On January 24 2011 08:22 AndrewSong wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 07:37 Gumster wrote:   On January 24 2011 05:23 AndrewSong wrote: That said, I truly believe cheating is +ev in life long as you don't get caught. It's pain in the ass to be fully committed to one girl when you're sexy as fuck. wait, was this a joke? so life is about getting laid as much as possible, no matter the consequences? fucked up thing to say Nah not really. It's not cheating if you get caught. That's being a moron. Put it this way.. Which one would you prefer if you were a girl? 1) Loyal boyfriend who do not cheat but isn't super nice. Romantic relationship you once had died over time since guys are animals who get too used to/sick of being with one girl. He's par on everything and doesn't fulfill your dream of shining knight in armor. 2) Cheater boyfriend who you have no idea and thinks he's super loyal. He's the best any girl can ever wish for and fulfills all your loving wishes even more so since he is feeling guilty of banging other chicks. He makes your life happier then you can ever imagine. No brainer?

girls would obviously take one. and girls think about fucking other dudes when in a relationship same as men.

we all human mang

On January 24 2011 10:32 AndrewSong wrote: Show nested quote + On January 24 2011 09:46 def_jammer wrote: hope thats a level because otherwise I cant understand how your smart enough to beat the high stakes. Reason why I can beat higher stakes then you is because I'm capable of thinking out the box =) Men are superior then women. Don't let the media fool you. They were our slaves past 20+ centuries let's not forget

no shit men are stronger than women .. new isaac newton here

im surprised you guys are all on a high moral horse with regards to this.

newsflash: everyone who is capable of cheating with someone, cheats.

we're animals, not angels.

ive cheated, hyperactive libidy and sex with one person gets boring theres something missing, sex is besides love however i dont have the strength yet to allow someone i love to have sex with somebody else... so it sucks oh well.


Anyway misanthropy based on such a shallow crap is absurd, i hate people but for much more meaningful reasons.

i skipped through most comments and only mostly read andrews. I agree that men are superior to women but i disagree that cheating is +EV and ok for men. Its kind of like saying ignorant people from the ghetto should not be allowed to vote because they arent educated in political issues. Out of fairness we cant do that. Thus they have to be treated equally.

There are other solutions besides cheating. but there really isn't a fair way to be able to date other women without allowing them the same deal. That said. All it takes is a man awesome enough and the women wont leave and he can do whatever he wants.

the ez reading details of my opinion on women is that they are emotionally weaker than men thus make worse decisions and more easily manipulated = men superior.

On January 24 2011 14:11 RiKD wrote: my feelings on the main issue of other ppl cheating is that you should stay out of it and lock any info away. don't get involved ever. i think the parties involved usually know what's up. if they don't they will. then they either don't care or delude themselves or cheat back or break up or w/e. if i had information though and a friend asked me i wouldn't lie to them. i have never heard of that happening though if you don't ever gossip about it w/ anyone and it's as if you have no info. this might be a cool thread topic though. even though he worded it like a crazy person douchebag, andrewsong has some good points. i think it's possible a compelling argument could be made for cheating just not by him. especially depending on how one defines cheating.

are you for real?
you woun't tell a friend of yours his girl cheated on him?You have to do it ASAP.Any sane person will be mad at you when he know the truth ...
Ofc you keep quite what your buddy's do with other girls just to be clear.

On January 24 2011 17:47 Baal wrote: ive cheated, hyperactive libidy and sex with one person gets boring theres something missing, sex is besides love however i dont have the strength yet to allow someone i love to have sex with somebody else... so it sucks oh well. Anyway misanthropy based on such a shallow crap is absurd, i hate people but for much more meaningful reasons.

i disagree. i find cheating among the lowest forms of untrustworthy and weakness.

Put it this way. you "love" somebody and you do the most hurtful thing to that person possible. This is based on the assumption that the pair is monogamous and somewhat romantic view of relationships i realize this but assume that is the case. If someone does this to another person. it means they are weak minded for not breaking up with them first, because they were being unsatisfied in the relationship. And a totally selfish person only looking out for what makes them feel happy. Thus they are guided by their emotions into doing things to seek that happiness and their "agreement" in essence means nothing. Because it is not being fulfilled. Now, this means that in the best of circumstances for caring for someone. Meaning, this is their "love". They cannot stop themselves from hurting them in the strongest way possible. Logic would lead to the conclusion that that person at his best cannot satisfy the simplest of pacts because their word is worthless. Thus they are untrustworthy selfish people. Because their is no substance to that persons word. If this is a person they care for more than anyone else (excluding mother's) and they cannot keep from hurting them to satisfy themselves. What would make them trustworthy when it comes to a more generic arrangement. Such as borrowing money?

Well generally they tend to pay back their debts pretty well. But their is a simple explanation for that. Their name. they will pay back their friends because it is in their best interest in maintaining that friendship but also in maintaining the ability to have support if they need help in the future. Also less emotional interest invested in money. That person wont really feel much different anyway if they have to pay back 100$ to a friend. So no big deal you can generally count on them to repay. Their are plenty of other situations to think of where people will be trustworthy. The point i am getting at is when. You get down to the nitty gritty of a relationship. All it is is words and emotions. And when the going gets tough and people decide to cheat. You see that their word isn't of any value when their is no collateral on the line. And they do not keep their word in what inherently should be the most critical agreement of their life (presently). A lot of people will see that if we disregard the idea of morals. Cheating is no big deal. Infact who cares it really wont affect your other friends in the least if you cheat on your girlfriend. But what people fail to realize is that keeping your word when you give it. Is what seperates the weak from the strong. Its a testament to the character of a person and how they will act when the going gets tough. In just about any situation. And you know this because of how they conduct themselves in the most intimate of situations. When what they do inherently without counting morals doesn't matter, and they have the ability to act selfishly with complete disregard yet decide not to. To fulfill their promise. So you see you can see very deep into the core of what makes a person tick when he can act without consequence but chooses not to.


I understand that this is again. The generic romantic view of a relationship but that is what i am assuming is being discussed in this blog for the most part.

I've read mostly AndrewSong/Sanai's post and I agree on the part that we are smarter/stronger than women, but not sure if the word "superior" is the appropiate, mainly different; also agree most people dont cheat on their girlfriends cause the dont have another eager blond craving their dicks.

I disagree on that being "superior" entitles us to cheat on them. If anything as rational superior beings we either commit to what we promise or do not make a promise in the first place. Wheter bitches cheat on boyfriends or not (which i'm sure they do often) is not an excuse to do it ourselves, it's like saying we shouldnt jam AA preflop cause we might get suckout.